Used b4utxther....and it ended up with this..

Met a girl about 4 weeks ago and number closed. Been using the b4utxther method with great success. We've been flirting via text on a consistent basis. Saw her once at my buddy's place about 2 weeks ago and she was SO into me. Then I had a party at my place this weekend and she came over. Was really into me and I could tell the method was working at building attraction. She brought up many of the "inside jokes/flirtatious texts" we had and we were flirting back and forth at my party. Next day I wake up and the following texts occurred:

ME: Did u leave ur jacket here?
HER: No sir
ME: Last nite was a bit unfair btw
HER: Haha why do you say that?
ME: You had a couple body guards..
HER: Lol just so you know I didn't invite those guys, they came up to me after one of them talked to you..
HER: But i wouldn't hook up with you though. Your fun, last night was awesome, but i know your type. Lol.

This threw me off as it came out of nowhere and totally unexpected. I played this off cocky funny and a few texts later she explained that she's not into "random hookups". A few texts after that i invited her out for the night and end up getting a "no" answer and later the "just wanna be friends" text.

Where do I go from here? I understand that after an LJBF you should ice...How long should I ice her for and what should be my initial text back to her? I'm kind of stumped here. It's weird that she brought up the whole hooking up thing first. The reason I want to try to recoup this is b/c she's really the first girl i've used the b4utxther method on and it worked wonders up until now...and I want to see if i can end up getting her for the experience even after getting LJBF'd.

Thanks guys.
-MKballer

Next time try "Who said I'd have you? I haven't signed off on you yet." ;-)

Bump. Anyone here? I have waited long enough? What's the re-engaging text?

Thanks guys

Kinda sound like she just put you in the friend zone bro. Because of the way you reacted when she brought up hooking up and knowing your type, she was testing you right there. You should of shown you have better options if you were just trying to get some. She gave the LJBF line cuz she thinks you're a "hit it and quit it" kind of guy. Personally I would stop talking to her for a bit analyze how you interacted with her and do something different. Or you could see how she reacts to jealousy, but it requires another girl showing interest in you while around her. Try getting her to go to a group event with your friends and hers. It would be way easier than getting her to go out alone. Then you could show interests in another girl her, or show more interest in her with another girl throwing herself at you. It might get her jealous and try to win your interest over the other girl.