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    Default Married since 4, got boring .. losing her, wanna do somthing that kick ass!

    Hey Guys,

    I did my PUA School 5 years ago, did some Mistery, RSD, DD, Badboys ....

    I became good pretty fast, so fast, I fell victim of my own success, aprox 1 year later, got maried, I have now a small child 18 month, he is soo cool, but the first year with the baby was so fucken hard ... unbelivable ... it basically killed us .... now its fine with the kid, but with the wife its not ... I was so fucken tierd and stressed ... I probably did every mistake in the book !

    Now I'm, pretty busy, job - kid - problematic wife ....

    I need to get my game back !!!

    Do you guys have some suggestion! Article, book, post to read ? Somethings that could help me to get back on track quick ... I forgot so much stuff a quick refresh would be cool. And since I live with here .... Do you guys suggest a particular methode / strategy ... Cause most of the PUA stuff is great when you dont know the girl ...

    I need to get back my wife ! My kid need a mom, a healthy family !

    Thanks for your help and support

    You friend The SegentChuck

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    Default Re: Married since 4, got boring .. losing her, wanna do somthing that kick

    Thats a tough one to tackle. Since most people who are in relationships or married probably dont frequent this site much.....that being said, I have read a few articles/posts about using PUA methods during a relationship.

    There are a few sections here under Dating Advice that might prove fruitful.

    I also suggest you read a book called "The Art of Seduction". I have used that book and have re-read it a few times to get a girl, keep a girl, reignite a relationship. Seduction isnt limited to picking up a girl at a bar or on a first date.....it really seems like its a lifetime game thats very dynamic since relationships, and people themselves, are dynamic over time.

    Just be VERY careful. I have never been married and most of the advice on here isnt geared towards marriage ( I have no idea what entails the dynamics of a married relationship). It seems like your wife is pretty unhappy but I think you should stay away from the jealousy tactics. I think the Push Pull method would work great here.....and also since shes doing some major pushing, it seems like she needs some Alpha in her life. Because lets face it.....marriage is inherently Beta. Dont be a dick, but definitely be confident, seduce, and take charge when she shows resistance by using LMR type tactics from this site.

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    Default Re: Married since 4, got boring .. losing her, wanna do somthing that kick

    1) Hire a babysitter.
    2) take your wife out for a romantic meal.

    Also, try and make a time during the week where you are both free, and do something together. Could be anything e.g. a meal, or even watching a film on the tv, but it sounds like you need to reduce the old stress levels (both of you).

    Rekindle the flame that you both had for each other when you first met.

    Hope this helps man, and best of luck to you
    If you dont ask, you wont get.

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    Default Re: Married since 4, got boring .. losing her, wanna do somthing that kick

    You need to spark some attraction. Learn to be the man of the house. Learn about shit tests and how to pass them.

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    con5 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Married since 4, got boring .. losing her, wanna do somthing that kick

    Your wife may have the exact same frustration as you - tired, kids, not feeling connecting to husband, etc

    I don't think she wants to leave now that the baby is only 18 months. I mean she won't want to leave the baby.

    Baby sitters and romantic date may work, you both need to sit down and pay attention to each other and you'll both have the chance to brush up the attraction.

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    Default Re: Married since 4, got boring .. losing her, wanna do somthing that kick

    You may not have time or energy for this but maybe you can each take a weekend to yourselves. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and I'm assuming that because of the baby you two are in each others presence a lot. Go out an grab some drinks with the guys then let her go out with the girls. But this is assuming you can find time. I am not a marriage counselor so take this with a grain of salt. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Married since 4, got boring .. losing her, wanna do somthing that kick

    Hey man, I didn't get married but alot of what your saying in your post reminds me of what I have gone through recently. Sounds like you knew the game but got lost in all of the day to day stresses of being a devoted father and husband. I would brush up on your game and give her space. Also there is a video on youtube w/mystery talking about pair-bonding--disc five, part two, I believe. You can re-kindle old feelings but you need to back off in order for this to work. My ex told me that she had no desire to get back together or work things out but I pushed and pulled during the break-up and used a little bit of text game and reverse psychology. Now I'm back in her bed having all kinds of sex along with kissing and cuddling like we used to.


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