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    benz207 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Potential BF steal

    Hey guys, been stalking the forums for a bit and decided to register today
    So I kind of have a situation. I know this girl who is currently going out with someone (been like 5 months and apparently the dude is needy). She would be perfect, however we both know that if we were in a relationship it wouldn't work out between us (diff religions). I feel like she is attracted to me, we flirt, and she constantly txts me. I can usually get girls and hookup and what not, but i never did it with a girl who has a bf so i am kind of tripped up on how to proceed.

    My problem: 2 days ago around one in the morning she came over and we were both laying down on my bed. We were pretty much cuddling, and she was touching me like my arms and hair and what not. I did not try to hookup with her, but regret it now. Am i missing it or is she throwing positive signs that she would be down for it. She is coming back tomorrow soooo i was hoping for some tips? Thanks.

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    Default Re: Potential BF steal

    Similar situation here. I am a college guy, and I have a had a female roommate since fall quarter. We were friends all last year and often drove to a city about an hour away on most weekends, where I have a GF and she has a BF and family.

    This fall she was looking for a place near school, and moved into a spare room in the house I was staying. I live with my sister so it wasn't too weird that she was willing to move in (she wasn't moving in with just me or a group of males). Everything has been cool for the last two quarters, we hangout, study, we go out to movies and eat and stuff but we always go dutch. So everything has been very platonic.

    The end of last week we went out for drinks to blow off some steam, we both got tipsy and I got some cigs (I rarely smoke neither does she). She started taking drags from my cigarette, and touching my arm. When we got home and started watching a move she sat right next to me on the couch, not at the other end or in the big comfy chair next to the couch. This seems like green light behavior to me (if we were both single I would mos def have tried escalating).

    I am not religious, she and her BF are. She has told me he doesn't fark her (and she says she is a virgin) and that he wants to wait for marriage. I am pretty sure she wants some action from me. The issue is, I don't know if she frustrated, and just wants the attention BF isn't providing, or if she is thinking relationship. We have both have been with our partners for 4+ years, seems a shame to fark that up...

    If she just wants some fun before marrying this guy, I think I want a taste, but I don't want to set off any crazy drama.

    My questions for more experienced guys are:
    1) How can I tell if an attached girl is eyeing me as a side-dish or main course?
    2) If she is looking for something on the side, what are some tips for working a girl when you both have partners?

    Thought I would jump in on this thread since the situation is pretty similar, i.e. the girl is initiating physical contact and there is the BF complication. If this is a forum foul just let me know, and I'll make a fresh thread...

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    Default Re: Potential BF steal

    I say go for it. I've always had fun stealing girls from guys who are too beta to get the job done. She may want you because you're more of an alpha male than the boyfriend that won't sleep with her. And by the way, these are total I.O.I.'s but if you're going to escalate, take it slow and don't talk about regretting the decision later. If you regret it, she'll regret it. Don't give in if she's all, "I shouldn't have cheated on my boyfriend..." it's a shit test. If you try to make things better, you fail. What you want to do is make her boyfriend seem more beta in her eyes by saying something like, "yeah, he seems like a really nice guy."
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    @benz207 go for it.....jsut realize there will be aftermath. One of three things will happen that are totally out of your control and all based on who the girl is:
    1) She will regret it the next day and hate you for it.
    2) This will end her current relationship and she will be a mess for a while.
    3) She will fall madly in love, dump her bf, and want your nuts for a relationship.

    So your chances are 2:3 that you will likely fuck up this girl's life and mental well being. There are plenty of other chicks to go after. It doesnt seem like you know this girl that well/for very long, arent madly in love, and sounds like you jsut want to fuck her. JUST REMEMBER THIS...PUA's are suppose to leave girls better than they found them. This situation is not very conducive to that; since you know a real relationship would not workout, this is ,in fact, basically selfish.

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    uluvtheLD is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Potential BF steal

    @Egghead

    Man STAY AWAY FROM VIRGINS! I know there is an appeal to them, but trust me from experience..... when you fark one, they are clingy as fark, annoying, and carry major guilt for what they did. And this is especially compounded because not only does she want to wait for marriage, but she has a bf. You will seriously fark this girl up.

    She probably is bored with her bf, her ioi's indicate this and she likes you. But remember this.....girls that young, especially virgins, dont view sex the same way us guys do. If she puts out... considere yourself warned.

    One way around it that worked for me was....this girl was with a bf and she was a virgin. He refused to do anything sexual with her and she was VERY sexually frustrated. Im talking nmpho virgin (she had a diary where she would write sex stories). So it was very easy to talk about sex with her and she actually broke up with him just so we could have sex ( and we had a ton of it). So my suggestion is to see how comfortable she is about wanting to have sex in the first place..... yeah you can seduce her in the heat of the moment and get her to do it, but thats kinda sleezy and shes not thinking straight. Once she actually realizes what she did , she will feel miserable. So definitely gauge her comfort with sex, and mentally seduce her so SHE is the one who wants to have sex with you... not the other way around.

    P.S. Even the nympho virgin ended up being a disaster.....we agreed it would be a strictly friend with benefits thing....but she fell in love and it ended badly. This outcome of them being clingy seems to be unavoidable.

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    Default Re: Potential BF steal

    Yeah you missed your shot when she was touching your hair and laying with you. Read the amazon book called Sexual body Language: 120 Body Language signals that she likes you, and you'll never make that mistake again


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