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    Default Girl is down but has a BF

    So this girl at my work seems wicked interested in me and always asks to hang out and such. Im pretty sure she's down for the f close but she has a boyfriend.(We've never talked about him) Should I ask her about it or just ignore it all together. Here's a recent text.

    Me: Yeahh... Plus I have this silly fear of being alone in the hot tub
    Her: haha I can help with that
    Me: Its not too much trouble?
    Her: well I might want something in return...
    Me: I mean thats only fair
    Her: I thought so
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    Default Re: Girl is down but has a BF

    Sounds like your in good shape. Get her alone with you, preferrably on your bed

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    Default Re: Girl is down but has a BF

    Man, I am in same shit... But I am guessing that shes DTF. I would go for it.

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    Default Re: Girl is down but has a BF

    Her texts sound like you have an excellent chance. The hot tub conversation is also useful.

    bring him up in conversation and simply tell her to 'put him on ice'. You are her future and he is her past.

    Ask her out. If a girl is really serious with her BF she will decline. If she says yes follow the normal steps as if she didnt have a boyfriend. Most women are insecure...many have boyfriends out of security but are looking for something better. They are always looking for the fittest genes from a biological point of view.

    You are the hot guy in the hot tub. he is the guy that needs to be put on ice or associated with ice.

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    Default Re: Girl is down but has a BF

    Quote Originally Posted by Yolo007 View Post
    Me: Yeahh... Plus I have this silly fear of being alone in the hot tub
    Her: I want to blow you.
    Me: Its not too much trouble?
    Her: Invite me over right now so we can have sex.
    Me: I mean thats only fair
    Her: I want to make babies with you right now.
    That's how I read it anyway. Seriously Bro, you could invite her over at 3 in the am and she would be there in a matter of seconds.

    It's your own morality and what you're ok with. If you have never talked about her boyfriend then you don't know she has one, so there's no reason to bring it up. There's a good chance she will eventually bring it up in the future but it'll be a shit test to see how you react. State transference says she'll respond however you respond, so just say, "So? What does that have to do with anything?" Don't let it phase you and it will be a non-issue.

    Remember though, if she will cheat with you, she will cheat on you. You may not agree and that's fine, but I'm a firm believer in that (from experience). Some girls are good for fun and others are good to keep around. If you're lucky she's both and you have no reason to be on here anymore lol
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