ok here is the deal:
we hit it off great, had fun, good conversation, good communication flow, Kino, kissing. 5th date I missed my escalation window to get her laid (yeah it was my farking fault^^ havent been dating for a while coz I just went out of a LTR). Next phone call she was cold and harsh, I obviously hurt her because I didnt do what needed to be done. She told me she doesnt want relationship, I told her I dont want friendship.
She also sent me a pathetic fb message afterwards. I replied and it was done for me (I was farked up by her message to be honest).
1 week later she got back to me heavily (texting, phone, 2 more dates) but no escalation possible. However she was warm and kind again so I thought it might be worth to pursue. Then we had another phone call where she was bitching again which lead me to send her a somewhat pathetic fb message, telling her that I'm not a puppy dog who is available whenever she feels bored and that we have to meet on equal terms...so it's 1:1 on pathetic fb messages.
obviously no more contact from both sides since then^^ (3 days) so do you think recovery is possible? Strategy? She is dating other guys which is ok for me and I won't creep of course. But the Tension is still there and I'd like to try just for the sake of experience.
atm I tend to give it another few days and then do exactly what she did when she got back to me.