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  1. #1
    AllTheWayDownTheLane is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Missed escalation, freeze out, recover?

    ok here is the deal:

    we hit it off great, had fun, good conversation, good communication flow, Kino, kissing. 5th date I missed my escalation window to get her laid (yeah it was my farking fault^^ havent been dating for a while coz I just went out of a LTR). Next phone call she was cold and harsh, I obviously hurt her because I didnt do what needed to be done. She told me she doesnt want relationship, I told her I dont want friendship.

    She also sent me a pathetic fb message afterwards. I replied and it was done for me (I was farked up by her message to be honest).

    1 week later she got back to me heavily (texting, phone, 2 more dates) but no escalation possible. However she was warm and kind again so I thought it might be worth to pursue. Then we had another phone call where she was bitching again which lead me to send her a somewhat pathetic fb message, telling her that I'm not a puppy dog who is available whenever she feels bored and that we have to meet on equal terms...so it's 1:1 on pathetic fb messages.

    obviously no more contact from both sides since then^^ (3 days) so do you think recovery is possible? Strategy? She is dating other guys which is ok for me and I won't creep of course. But the Tension is still there and I'd like to try just for the sake of experience.

    atm I tend to give it another few days and then do exactly what she did when she got back to me.

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    20Nation is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Missed escalation, freeze out, recover?

    Yeah man you're putting her on a pedestal. Go find a few other girls, and you wont act so needy. Time is the only thing that can fix this

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    hyde is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Missed escalation, freeze out, recover?

    Try and make her jealous with Facebook messages and pictures from other girls. Only talk to her if you have a good non-relationship reason.


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