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Thread: Getting her back to my hotel advice

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    Default Getting her back to my hotel advice

    Looking for some tips that will help get her to my hotel room. The girl likes me and we have known each other for a while but have only just got closer and I only have a small window of opportunity to make a move physically. Hotels carry certain connotations with them if you ask them back

    My plan so far is we are meeting for some dinner, I will then suggest we go for a drink at a rooftop bar that has the best views of the city. It so happens the rooftop bar is on the top floor of the hotel I will book! The rooms also have stunning views. The rooftop bar is really romantic and not always busy. This gives me a nice setting to get more intimate, maybe some touching and possibly kissing if not many people around. If all is going well at this point I can try get her to the room. Alternatively I could bring her straight to the room (our own bar with a view) after dinner and bypass the rooftop bar and have a drink in the room but the bar is pretty cool and I think would make a better sequence. I'm not entirely sure what I can do or say to lead to the room. I have a few loose ideas:
    - I could simply tell her and invite her back discussing it openly,
    - suggest 'I know another place real close we can have another drink'
    - mention I have a mysterious surprise will she join me,
    - just walk to the elevator get off at my floor and take her in without saying much as we have to use same elevators for bar
    - I will have my laptop in hotel so I have also thought about seeding something to show her on the computer thats in the room
    - seeding in conversation if she would like to ever stay at a hotel like this (it's 5 star) so she is already saying yes hypothetically

    I want to play my cards right so I don't freak her out or if she starts getting nervous as I head to the hotel room I have some ammunition.

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Getting her back to my hotel advice

    OK so I didnt get any tips back here but had my date tonight and things went really well. It wasn't an easy night though so I thought I'd share a few of the things that happened and how I worked aggressively through them. Mods please post this to field report if appropriate.

    First thing I noticed is when I had to confront the boring details of what time to meet etc she wasn't as responsive. Seems to be a common thing and maybe something to do with women being more emotional than technical. I had programmed a few days ago when and where we'd meet but had to confirm on the day. I sent her a few easy going texts and then said 'I'll see you at 6.30 at (place we're going to meet) hope you wear those new shoes you were talking about'. She didn't respond for a while...but it didnt matter because I never asked her questions like 'are we still meeting tonight? etc'. Then at about 6 she wrote to me and said 'where are you now? Can we meet next week, Im tired, Ive been shopping all day'. Her only nights off are tuesday. I don't think she was lying but I said 'Im on my way. Tonight is good, you and me having great food will be fun'. The ONLY excuse I will generally accept from a girl to flake is genuine work or family commitments.

    She texts back 'I will come and yes I have the new shoes!'. Good girl. I ended up picking her up from her apartment on the way in the taxi and we went for dinner. This was good because I got in some early Kino on the taxi ride. She was visibly tired but I was not going to dwell on that too much and just enjoy our time together. The conversation went well at dinner, fairly easy as I do already know her to some degree. I shifted from being on the opposite side of the table to next to her as it was a 4 seat table. This again allowed some subtle kino, touching etc. After getting the bill she was probably assuming she could go home after that haha but again I was not going to take no for an answer. I kept to my original plan and said 'I have a place Im going to take you for an after dinner drink, it has really nice views, best views of the city'. She hesitated a bit but it was still early and I was able to push her along. Once again in the taxi I started up some kino. Put her hand on my leg etc. She started to play around with me taking her hand back off my leg. I would put it straight back on and kept our fingers as locked as possible without being forceful. She wasn't so much being cold but I thought it might come back to certain complexities of our situation. She's a nice girl too. It didnt matter too much Im just getting her used to me touching her.

    Anyway arrive at the terrace bar and order some white wine overlooking the city. This is great, it just provides such a good setting for chatting and flirting. I pulled out all stops and was trying pretty hard to get her more intimate but she wouldn't completely take the bait. Hmmm normally they are putty in my hands by this stage. I also felt physical flirting and playing a bit hot and cold was not going to work as well as some deep meaningful honest conversation. I sat closer to her. Maybe I was coming on too strong and needed to praise her up a little and blow her away mentally. Get her more comfortable with what we are doing. This is in some ways easier than doing the physical flirting but hard none the less. I would stare deep into her eyes and I started talking about 'us', how I felt and what she felt. The wines helped. This deep meaningful conversation started working as it enabled us to discuss our situation. As the conversation progressed I did end up complimenting her quite a few times, probably said a lot of things pickup books suggest not to, but always remained the alpha male and not being needy or poetic just for the sake of it. She also complimented me a lot. I started slowly bringing back physical flirting into the picture including telling her openly I liked being close to her and liked touching her. Actually I said 'its impossible for me to not want you. I want to kiss you head to toe'.

    Some people had reserved a flatbed we were sitting on so we had to move. This was good as I shifted her towards a less populated area of the terrace bar. During the shift I made sure she ended up resting into me like a chair and then she was relaxing a bit more. The talk seemed to do wonders as she now finally started playing with my hands and touching me a little. Bingo, I lean in for the kiss. Nice. She is gorgeous and her breasts/cleavage are just staring at me. Im starting to turn into a werewolf they are so awesome and perky. Steady. But she is still tired. Now I am at the crossroads of letting her go or running the gauntlet and bringing her back to my room. Ive already had a cracker night I dont want to stuff it up now.

    She had started to mention she needed to get back to discuss something with her sister/flatmate as well as being tired. Great now I have that to deal with. I told her 'ahh you guys can sort that out tomorrow, life is short, the only thing that matters right now is us'. She wasn't completely happy as I proceeded to order another wine for us both. Oh well. I wasn't sure I wanted to go through a whole other nights date further down the line so I went for double or nothing. I pulled out my keycard and said 'I have a room here tonight, lets relax there, you can lie down and rest'. She was obviously a little shocked by this but heck we had just had a deep conversation and kiss and I knew being tired her resistance might also be down. She didn't say anything but started starring away. Ok so thats not a no I thought giggling to myself. I started giggling out loud too instantly trying to deflate the seriousness of what had just been said. I am so used to taking a girl back to my apartment when they are lively, not tired and free of complexity but this broad was tricky for me in this context.

    I grabbed her hand at this point and led her away. 'Lets get out of here'. I led her straight to my room. She was silent. It was awkward. But we entered the room. Pheww. She made some small talk about the room, used the bathroom (good sign) and lay down on the bed complaining she needed sleep. Again I wasn't taking no for an answer and slowly started 'massaging' her. She didnt resist this at all because I knew she would genuinely like and need it. Massaging soon turned to kissing her whole body and the rest of the night is going to stay in my private memory banks forever. She didnt stay overnight, she did have to get going, which is a shame but I'm thankful for everything that went down and glad I gave a long shot a go. Better sometimes to do something and regret it than not do it all as they say. Even if nothing physical had happened at all I would still have been happy to have spent such time with a beautiful women.

    I owe a lot of thanks though to various posters on this board, most of the work I had to do myself and it was spontaneous from my own heart but I did keep reminding myself of some golden rules:
    - Always kino
    - Always escalate but back off here and there into deep conversation to balance the comfort zone
    - Dont take no for an answer unless it really is a 'NO!'
    - Dont try to trick women, openly discuss what you are feeling and what you want to do
    - No matter how much you think you want to give in and let her go, try gamble your stakes to the highest split but also know when to quit while you're ahead. I contemplated changing plans to next week but did not. I contemplated letting her go home after dinner but did not. I contemplated letting her go at the rooftop bar before we kissed but did not, I contemplated not asking her back to my room but did not. The last part I almost quit while I was ahead and Im confident it would have all happened another time but you know what, lifes too short, make it happen.
    - Keep persevering

    = success

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    Default Re: Getting her back to my hotel advice

    awesome man.

    I learnt alot from this.

    Hey White Dragon, I got a question.

    I cannot take a girl to my place. How do I convince her to go to a hotel room?

    Let me know pleaseee. I need to get this motel game right or else I will always fail.

    I simply cannot take her to my place...
    I am Sam the S-S-S-S-S-S-Stuttering PUA in ASIA.
    "I cant believe that we would lie in our graves wondering if we had spent our living days well...i cant believe that we would lie in our graves wondering of things that might have been"

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    Default Re: Getting her back to my hotel advice

    awesome field report whitedragon, i stumbled upon it looking to find something about cold women :P

    don't convince her Sam, tell her what's happening and give her no reason to object


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