I met a girl and was getting some very mixed signals from her the entire night.
We met at a concert and she opened me, and continually showed desire to hang out. I feel like I did everything right, whenever she got distracted by friends I would go talk to my friends. When she had to talk to her friend in private I tried to bow out and she came running back.
The problem was that when I tried to make contact or look for IOIs the signals I got were mixed. Early in the night she let me put my hand around her waist but as we were walking around town she would push my arm off of around her shoulder. She would allow me to hold her hand but if I locked fingers or squeezed she would let go immediately. Any tips on this?
She asked if she could spend the night and that's when I got serious LMR. "I don't like to meet guys and have sex right away" I believe there was even an anymore attached to that statement. How do you shoot down the "I'm not that kind of girl" or "I don't want to look like a slut" LMR?