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    chiefster1976 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Shes Says shes keen then drops the bombshell

    thanks guys this is good stuff your sharing.. I hear what your saying.. feeze her out what by ignoring her email or phone call if she calls?? i shouldnt even leave an email saying something short like you need to work through your stuff call me when you have it sorted??Kinda feel like i have to at least leave a parting message...
    She already emailed back because i havent replied yet, saying, ''mmm, i guess your a bit shitty about now,sorry but i thought i have to be honest about how im feeling!''
    She thinks she is an Empath..Feeling others feelings an emotions in spirit form just being in a room with someone/people,feels negative/possitive energy etc...hates crowds..This shit is stopping her being herself...
    Someone mentioned a shit test..Is this her way of seeing if i can deal with her state of mind once in a relationship with her??
    Im open to Freezing Her Out for a while,just need help in leaving a parting message and knowing how to reopen her ina few weeks unless she contacts me first??? thanks in advance guys for your help,im loving the support im getting thus far..Big respect! Some of us need all the help we can get..lol..

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    Default Re: Shes Says shes keen then drops the bombshell

    If you are looking for a 'parting' message say 'bye bye all the best' and move on to other girls, otherwise there's actually no need to write anything at all. You could be on a surfing safari, in a foreign country with limited email, hiking up Everest without any reception or screwing 17 Japanese models in a televised bukakke contest for all she knows. I know it sounds like a bad thing to do but I often ignore chicks messages completely and it drives them crazy for you. See how well her empathy and psychic powers work then.

    You could write back 'haha I'm not sh!tty' and absolutely nothing more if you really can't control yourself but I wouldn't respond at all and start gaming other girls. If she calls you up in person on the phone she is likely still somewhat interested. I doubt she'll do that though but if she does say your busy right now and can you meet her somewhere to talk face to face, you will come over to her place. Kiss her madly when you 1st see her or something before she even starts talking about herself and the situation.

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    chiefster1976 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Shes Says shes keen then drops the bombshell

    Here is her latest facebook update...lol...
    ''Find someone who can change your life, and not just your relationship status. Find somebody that will be there for you through thick and thin, and who isn't just with you because of the way you look or because of what you can do for them. Everybody deserves someone who makes them look forward to tomorrow. The one who is meant for you encourages you to be your best but still loves & accepts you at your worst. Don't continue chasing the wrong person while the right person is dying to be loved by you.''

    Either this girl is shit testing through facebook or is truely honest..
    When you see this its hard to play the Freeze Out game! Is this a chump way to look at it or just a guy feeling she really wants true love? Its generally not in my nature to be a hard arse to chicks,but i ceratainly aint no pushover and certaily not a NICE guy!!

    Question is with a chick with this outlook on life, is the freeze out game really the best option? Im taking ALL you guys advice onboard,its really interesting on the answers im getting!!

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    Default Re: Shes Says shes keen then drops the bombshell

    'don't waste time continuing to chase the wrong person'. Well...she's right.

    You can still freeze her out, your not wasting time, irrelevent of her quote. She has no idea you have even seen her FB update and you could try again later but sometimes you just have to cut your losses and move on. I mean it could be some random quote she posted but it sounds awfully like it's directed at you unfortunately. Fark that

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    Default Re: Shes Says shes keen then drops the bombshell

    i shouldnt even leave an email saying something short like you need to work through your stuff call me when you have it sorted??Kinda feel like i have to at least leave a parting message...
    She already emailed back because i havent replied yet, saying, ''mmm, i guess your a bit sh1tty about now,sorry but i thought i have to be honest about how im feeling!''
    I feel a parting message would be good before the freeze.

    It should demonstrate high value and that you are not hanging on her next move nor do you care. No matter how much you think you two are right for each other and no matter how much you like her, you have got to close it right.

    Write something along the lines of what WD suggested: "hahah I'm not sh1tty, and bye bye...all the best!"

    or

    "we are too much alike, this is never going to work, we will fight all the time, ill always win, you'll be sad."

    Nothing more.

    ''Find someone who can change your life, and not just your relationship status. Find somebody that will be there for you through thick and thin, and who isn't just with you because of the way you look or because of what you can do for them. Everybody deserves someone who makes them look forward to tomorrow. The one who is meant for you encourages you to be your best but still loves & accepts you at your worst. Don't continue chasing the wrong person while the right person is dying to be loved by you.
    She is sh1t testing you and herself...she is confused. Don't reply.


    FREEZE HER after you close her properly. ^This could be aimed at you but in some abstract way so take it as a diary entry or something lol

    G'luck mate and SHALOM!!!

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    Default Re: Shes Says shes keen then drops the bombshell

    This was my parting message....''Hey , I hear ya, im not shitty with you, seriously good luck, if you change your mind give me a call...''
    Got a reply of ''R u serious? So we can't be mates? Lol yep cool whatever''..
    Im thinking here a reply of '' I have heaps of girl mates, i cannot be just mates with you,we are too much alike to be mates!! ''


    I guess guys i have alot to learn..lol..

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    Default Re: Shes Says shes keen then drops the bombshell

    Any ideas guys on this one,im in limbo here..thanks heaps..

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    Default Re: Shes Says shes keen then drops the bombshell

    Don't say anything to her and move on. Find someone better - no point being in limbo. Put her on ice.


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