know girl for like 3 years
good friends for a while, then stopped talking about 6 months ago
hanging out again recently
flirt a bit, both comfortable and good keno
go out once a week or so, usually just weekends
stay at her place one night in spare room
she comes in joins me
we talk for a while, i make a move, she doesn't seem interested.
didn't pursue it much more
didn't leave to her bed or anything
no awkwardness following
should i have tried harder? what can i do different? if i was friend-zoned would she still have come to sleep with me?
I don't know if i want to date this girl, shes kinda high maintenance, but a 8 or 9 at least.
I'd like to just have some fun.