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    triplenexus is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Need help moving from the Meet and Greet, Past comfort, till the suduction

    Hello Every one. I'm 21 years of age. I would like to start off by saying that I have no problems conversing with a woman nor obtaining her number. My problem is I think I let women get too comfortable with me before I even attempt to seduce them. I've done research on this, I've gotten countless excuses from women from, "I have a boyfriend", "I don't think we're ready", "It's my time of the month" even one of my ex girl friends told me she was going to practice "celibacy" while we had a relationship(I thought it was a tactic for no sex or for me to pop the question).


    Moving on, I just moved to south Florida and the women here are of a different nature then where I come from. I be smiles a lot and no attitudes. Currently where I work there is a Straight Woman to Straight Man Ratio of 15:1. I have a big window fellas. I don't understand where I go wrong. I'm charming, funny, I can be a gentleman(when I want to be.) There is about 50% of the employees here are college students, So I know the girls are having plenty of sexual relationships.

    So far I have gotten maybe 10-15 phone numbers and have yet to bring 1 female to my apartment. It's kind of depressing I know but I'm trying to change all that. I've even bought How to Text a woman product that was advertised on the website. I've gotten some positive responses but it hasn't gotten me to seal the deal with anyone of them.

    Can I get some recommendation/tips/suggestion/advice.

    PS. The ones that I'm gaming more then others have flaked at least once or twice

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    Default Re: Need help moving from the Meet and Greet, Past comfort, till the suduct

    You have to strike while the iron is hot. Girls like to be swept off their feet. If you just stick around adoring them they will friendzone you. You always have to be very upfront in what you want. If you get a number off a girl, call her up. If she doesn't answer and you have to go to texting, escalate it to a meet up as soon as you can. Girls loose interest really fast otherwise. Anyone can get numbers, its actually very easy. Getting them into your bedroom is what requires stronger work (unless they are seducing you).

    This whole forum is full of guys wanting advice because they simply did not act quick enough. Many times I go straight up to a girl and I don't Number Close, I date close. The number is secondary. 'Hi, I had to come and chat to you, you seem like a person who would be interesting and easy to talk to, I can tell by your eyes *stare into them* that you have a big heart and you are attractive (optional). I would like to take you out for coffee or a drink, somewhere we can have a good conversation'. You would be suprised at how often that works because its uber confident in displaying exactly what you want. You like her and you want to take her out. That's what we all want so you don't always have to hide it. Women like to be approached directly whether in real life or on a dating site. Texting is playing water pistols, talking in person is scud missiles.

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    Default Re: Need help moving from the Meet and Greet, Past comfort, till the suduct

    Holy crap, I completely agree with White Dragon. The only think i'd add is women are supposed to put up resistance, its nothing to do with you. Look up techniques for breaking Last Minute Resistance. Mystery was a pua that was particularly good at this, AFCAdam is number one in the world and also touches on the subject. Hope this helps.
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