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    Default Seducing Older Women (40's)

    I'm going to meet up w/ a HB8 40 year old this week for drinks. This is uncharted territory for me. I've been striking gold w/ girls in their 20's lately so I'm a little jaded. Anybody have any tips on what to expect compared to younger girls?

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    Default Re: Seducing Older Women(40's)

    Here's to you Mrs Robinson.

    They may develop feelings for you like they were 18 despite having the body of a 40 year old. They may work out everyday. They are still 40 years old.

    If they have children they may bring up conversation with you that is more like a father or husband conversation rather than boyfriend talk.

    If they have children they will not be able to help talk about them and again, somewhere along the line they will start role playing you as a father. This is natural, they cannot help it and all you have to say is your 'not looking to be a role model for someone elses children right now'. Unlike an 18yr old she will probably completely understand the dynamic, again, once presented to her. Of course this area (kids) is a huge gold mine of ways to get in her pants and should be capitalized upon.

    They know what they want in bed and will likely not let opportunities slip them by playing hard to get.

    They should not have the sexual or emotional hang ups of younger girls.

    They should be much easier to talk to about difficult, sexual or 'long term' subjects.

    They are horny and act upon it.

    I know a few guys that even fell in love with and married older girls so anything can happen.

    Have fun

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    Default Re: Seducing Older Women (40's)

    if she doesn't want to sleep with u she wouldn't have agreed to the date most cougars go out with younger men for the hot sex u are going to f close my friend, just play u're game normaly and u will be fine.
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    Default Re: Seducing Older Women (40's)

    I am a lifeguard at a yacht club, and an older women has caught my attention. She is always smiling, and winking at me. This is a clear ioi, but idk if she wants to flirt of F-close. I ran into her at the grocery market, she opened on me, i carried the convo for a little while, then told her i had errands to run. I talked to her a little more before she checked out, and again she was open to the convo. She is a little intimidating cause she is 10-15 Years older then me, and taller by like 4 inches. I need help!!

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    Default Re: Seducing Older Women (40's)

    Quote Originally Posted by Woodstock516 View Post
    I am a lifeguard at a yacht club, and an older women has caught my attention. She is always smiling, and winking at me. This is a clear ioi, but idk if she wants to flirt of F-close. I ran into her at the grocery market, she opened on me, i carried the convo for a little while, then told her i had errands to run. I talked to her a little more before she checked out, and again she was open to the convo. She is a little intimidating cause she is 10-15 Years older then me, and taller by like 4 inches. I need help!!
    You should make a new thread for that. I'm sure you'll get better help, than when piggybacking on someone elses thread.

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    Default Re: Seducing Older Women (40's)

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    if she doesn't want to sleep with u she wouldn't have agreed to the date most cougars go out with younger men for the hot sex u are going to f close my friend, just play u're game normaly and u will be fine.
    Take that as your Mindset and you should do fine. And remain relaxed.

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    Default Re: Seducing Older Women (40's)

    Piggyback away but keep us posted on the situation. I'll be sure to keep you guys up to date on what happens w/ my situation as well.

    I appreciate the advice. Big confidence boost.

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    Default Re: Seducing Older Women (40's)

    UPDATE:

    I met up with the cougar tonight. Told her to meet me out for a drink a couple of days ago and this was first day we could do it.

    I made sure I gave her a hug when she came in. It's usually not my style(i'm laid back) but it's something i tried working on since joining forum(more Kino). Also, gave me a starting point of where I was/where to start.

    Let me say I was not feeling it before hand. I have been juggling too many girls lately and i'm about burnt out. If she wasn't looking GOOD i knew it could end early. My goal tonight was to go 'BOMBSHELL' on this girl(Kino Suave method)

    I basically read up on Virgil's alpha male thread before I left to 'game' myself up. So I was really in a good Mindset.

    This chick was banging. For a cougar she was a straight HB10. Incredible body. Sexy Dress. High Heels. She came to impress.

    It was almost too easy. I was thinking about the next Kino step and she was actually Kino'ing me. She was comfortable with every progression. It was pretty intense. I didn't do any push pull but I kept some playful negs going.

    We went to a couple of bars so I had to bring her back to her car. She was passenger when i parked so i really wasn't sure If i could pull off the 'bombshell'. Didn't need to. I just pulled her in and we started making out. It was pretty intense. She told me I was great kisser. I told her she was 'ok'(neg) lol. I didn't get ANY resistance with my hands. After about 5 minutes I stopped and said, 'be careful driving home'. and that was it. She was smiling ear to ear. That was my only real push of the night.

    I'm gonna f-close next time I see her. I don't know if it's in the rule book this late in the game but I'm still gonna drop the bombshell on her next time.

    I'd like to point out she really wasn't that much older than me(5 years). Truth is she thought I was 7 years younger than I am though.

    Thanks for reading. Just wanted to give an update.

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    Default Re: Seducing Older Women (40's)

    Great stuff Roland!! All the best!!

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    Default Re: Seducing Older Women (40's)

    I take my hat of to u bro! i don't know if u know this but since u ended the kiss she's thinking this guy is different he's a gentleman sex isn't the only thing on his mind that will lead to her fucking u're brains out and i will chop my dick off if she doesn't. Of course u can bombshell her bro. Here's what i want u to do on the next date i want u to stop her when she's kinoing u and i want u to look into her eyes then drop the bomb then grab her neck and kiss her.
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