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    Default Breaking down resistance

    Hey guys just wanted to get some feedback on how to respond when things are getting hot and heavy but all of a sudden the girl stops and gives you an excuse like. "we should stop", "I dont usually do this kind of thing", "this isnt me, im not this kind of girl" etc...... Any thoughts on how to keep things going and make her feel comfortable

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    Default Re: Breaking down resistance

    Hey, FauxPas here. I would suggest using Push/Pull. Get her hot and bothered, then pull back, one step forward two back. Try and beat her to the punch by saying your afraid it's going to fast. But all the time Push/Pull. Good luck, and good vibes. Ciao, FauxPas.

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    Default Re: Breaking down resistance

    You need to Freeze Out. Also, read this post to increase your chances of avoiding the situation all together.
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    Default Re: Breaking down resistance

    Also, one thing that worked is saying stuff like "yeah, sure, I understand " while keeping on escalating. You can even be like "I'll just walk you to the subway", then "i'll just walk you home", and then just a bit of "Do you mind if I just get something to drink? I'll have to leave soon anyway" or something like that

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    Default Re: Breaking down resistance

    This is classic LMR and requires a Freeze Out hands down. Usually you can avoid LMR if your game, up to that point, was solid. LMR is a sign that you may have missed something in your interaction with her earlier when building comfort. Personally I like to add a bit of flare to a freeze out, other than just giving her the "cold shoulder." I will watch tv, youtube, or facebook. Something that will make me laugh and my attention to her drops down to 10%. If she asks me if everything is ok I will respond with "Yup" and continue laughing at my show. Just be short with her. Mind you I remove all physical contact with her. You have to see your touch and attention as a reward. By doing something else creates a fun reality bubble that you are in and she is not allowed in the club. By making her uncomfortable with this she will be drawn to your fun attitude that you are not sharing with her. I've only encountered LMR 2-3 times so my experience is more about making sure I don't encounter LMR in the first place. But when encountered this is how I handled it.

    Also take note that this is used when you are hot and heavy and she literally stops you physically. If she is just saying it with her words, but still allows you to escalate then just keep going. She's mostly talking to herself for plausible deniability.
    Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Breaking down resistance

    Excellent suggestions guys. With your help, I can hardly wait for next year! I'll be on your heels! Ha, ha! Good luck, and good vibes. Ciao, FauxPas.


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