Well I am talking to this girl she has already sorta referred sex before. About half a month ago she asked me to come to her house while no one was there but she didn't come out and say to have sex. But later that night she ended up having sex with another guy I know. So I know that I would of ended up having sex with her but I wasn't able to drive 30 minutes to her house that night. She texted me 2 days ago and I told her I was going somewhere and she asked to come too. She ended up not being able to go. How do I keep the attraction from a girl who wants sex but lives 30 minutes away? I text her mostly, I've talked to her on phone and I think I'm going to start talking to her on the phone more because I really don't like texting my game is 20 times better in real life. Should I just straight up tell her lets fark? I have been sorta been playing hard to get, ending the conversations on texts real early in the day and stuff then not texting her for the rest of the day because I tell her I'm busy and I have to leave.