One of the things I've always strived to be was charismatic and to understand those with it.
I've tried to be overtly clever. I tried being a bad azz. Being careless and free of mind. I even tried modalities.
All of these in some way moved me along in my journey but none of it got me charisma.
And finally in a stroke of luck, i finally understood what it is to be charismatic, I think.
First, I will create frame of mind that is unbending. A view of the world so strong even that it sucks those around me in(I'm going to try affirmations to harden my world around me and find causes to battle for).
Second, I will figure out the ways I want people to act around me while they're in my presence, how they should treat me and if these rules are broken I will deal with it swiftly(I've already written a list and have already put it into affect).
This could cause me to lose a lot of friends. What ever. It might even flip my world upside down. Good, probably exactly what I need. But I will dive deep into this and see where it leads too.
This post may sound super narcissistic and probably a little manipulative, but that is what it is to be a pua. If anyone has any pointers on the subject I would love to hear them. There isn't alot of material on the subject and I think its crucial to creating an exciting life that sucks women in.