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    Brix78 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Red face Getting a little stressed with this situation

    Hi this is my second post and i want to through a problem straight at u guys hope you can help.

    Anyway meet a women (30) we had a One Night Stand. I used no skill whatsoever, this was out of the blue. Anyway she wanted me and got me (gladly).

    Shes a friend of a friend and i looked her up on fb and messaged her. I said basiclly i know u have a boyfriend that ur in love with, but id like to meet up again, she said we'll see if we meet again in the future take it from there. (not good enough for me), i said ok see u in the future, she said hopefully. And i just left it and gave up 2 days later she messaged me saying she was expecting a message from me, and missed my messages and why havent i got back to her.
    That was the best bit now i feel im just slipping into friend slot and i aint having it no more!

    I made a couple of sexual remarks given her some flattery, made funny comments told her shes a nughty girl (which she liked) but she isnt responding with any real eagerness its all good but gettin to friendly. I dont know where to go from here the messages are going to get boring unless i can really get her into it then hopefully we can meet up. I want to ask to meet but i know i'll get some fob off like in the future again.

    I want her coming at me again. A mistake i made was to b a little eager i.e replying to soon.

    Can you guys get her chasing me again haha or at least help me along the way!?

    If this is in the wrong place sorry, first time here.

    Cheers guys!

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    Default Re: Getting a little stressed with this situation

    Honesty is a core value for me, so I'm personally not chasing after other guys' girls. That being said, I think that David DeAngelo's cock-funny would be a good way to start changing the table with her. Find out what she is passionate about and talk about that. Once you've built rapport again, you can start talking about having a secret tryst in Paris or other role-playing story-telling type games.

    That being said I'd encourage you to look elsewhere if she's as serious with this guy as you say she is. There are plenty of boats in the ocean that don't have a captain or whatever that saying is...

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    Default Re: Getting a little stressed with this situation

    Brix78,

    She's got you caught by the balls. At this point, she knows that she can manipulate because you've shown yourself to be easily malleable. I think it is good to realize that you are fed up with the situation, as that is a good first step in the process.

    On another note, I would recommend that you Freeze her out, and just move on to another girl.

    I agree with what PUATmosphere said, perhaps it's best to let her go because she has a boyfriend.

    Be polite to her, but be curt and succinct about what you say, as it is your reality, and you are not here to cater to her every word or response.

    Yours truly,

    DandyLion

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    Brix78 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Getting a little stressed with this situation

    Hi thanx for getting back to me sorry it took so long to reply. I just been browsing info. I think good advice from u both. I think i was to eager to willing. She did say in a message last fri that she was about to say its best we dont meet up but would b nice to keep talking blah blah, but cos i was reading something she liked she may have to reconsider. I dont think she has any intention of reconsidering.
    I blew it, which is a shame cos i like her quite a bit.
    Anyway she messaged me sunday basiclly just being nice hope have a great day speak later im in a rush, so for me thats it, ive not replied bk. Not saying i wont again but a Freeze Out to see if she changes her way at all may help.

    Anyway i blew it and need to learn alot more before i start cracking on to more women.
    How long do u freeze out? And how should i come back? I dont think she will message me back more than one more time with no reply. I'm rubbish at this on an even worse note some woman old enough to b my mum kissed me and i didnt even get that going any further, but i was very drunk.


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