At 3am, I got home from a 4.5hr 1st internet date w a thin/athletic blonde HB7.
I arrived 1st & thought:
beta male: put our name in for a table, wait outside for her
Alpha Male: sit at the bar, face away from the door
She arrived 2 minutes late and had to search for me a little. I had
just texted her: "You're late we're breaking up."
We had great conversation & I didn't wait for her to complete every
thought before pulling hooks. I started kino very subtly
by 1st touching our knees together. When I taught her soul
gazing, she kept giggling so I took her hand to focus. From
then on we were holding hands frequently.
I had a fun idea: internet dates are so awkward. Why don't we just get
all the awkward relationship moments out first. So I made her role
play about male impotence, not meeting my parents, peeing while I'm
shaving, & breaking-up. My wing would have been proud. It was weird /
funny but she was completely comfortable. As we role played, I
escalated kino & she responded to every touch or compliance test. Then I
realized this role play would be perfect for a 1st kiss; they are
So I stopped talking for a few seconds and looked at her. I felt like
I needed a smooth line but nothing felt natural so I decided, fuck it!
When you ask, "Should I?" You should. I just grabbed the back of her
neck & kissed her. It lasted forever. Everyone in the bar must have
noticed. We were slowly French kissing & softly groping for minutes.
"Was that awkward enough?" I said.
She recovered, "Maybe for the bartender."
The rest of the night we found spots to kiss: a couch near the blues
band, outside behind a movie ticket booth, several dark street-side
crevasses, my car... She's an amazing kisser & extremely responsive to
The last thing I asked her: "What did you think when I 1st kissed you?"
She blushed, "I think I wanted it but didn't know yet."
I always want to make the move just moments before she's ready. That's exciting for both of us.