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    Exclamation Bf destroyer advice

    Hello,

    I used some of the advice on one of the bf destroyer technique posts...and this is girl is already attracted to me...and has been for about 4-5 years...but obviously..the bf is in the way....So i sendthis message to her (her bf is lacking dominance and is predictable), and this is what she says....

    Is this good/ means anything? Or it's kind of hopeless here:


    Me: Hmm... i don't think Its that this guy doesn't love you. He probably does. Its just that he's so comfortable with you now.. and feels so close to you, that you're more like a sister to him.. Like a special sister, but someone who he doesn't feel that he has to do all these things for anymore, because your relationship is so secure and so predictable.. there's no need for all that excitement, because he knows that nothing will change.. Some guys deal with true love that way.. I dunno, for me, I think that if you really love someone, you have to keep it fresh. But really, its not that he doesn't love you, its just that he loves you so much that he doesn't see the need, thus explaining the lack of dominance/ predictabiiity...

    Her: You are very right, I think that he feels pretty comfortable with our relationship that he feels like he doesnít have to go to the extent to make things exciting/ go out of his comfort zone for me. While on the other hand, Iím always looking for new things to try and I donít really tell him my feelings as much as I should. Eww I hope he sees me as more than a sister! I think thatís just the way he is in relationships/his personality. I would say our relationship is very boring compared to what it was in the beginning. I feel after about 6 months of being together, he lost some of his motivation for me. We have been together now for 10months. I would say he is more dominant during sex though (which I like) lol. You are pretty good at observing these things! Iím impressed. Well I have to go meet my friend at the gym. Talk to you later. Iím glad you understand my dilemma.

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    Default Re: Bf destroyer advice

    step 1: complete my friend in one message!

    step 2: you are now aware of what she is lacking and the seed is planted, become the object of desire she so willingly lust for.

    Great work, i know who to come for when obsticles of my desires are encounted.

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    Default Re: Bf destroyer advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    step 1: complete my friend in one message!

    step 2: you are now aware of what she is lacking and the seed is planted, become the object of desire she so willingly lust for.

    Great work, i know who to come for when obsticles of my desires are encounted.

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    What do you mean with step 1?

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    Default Re: Bf destroyer advice

    step one you planted the seed in her head of what she is lacking, you also had her admit what she wants and doesnt have, so step two comes into play when you start using that to your advantage, make yourself fun and adventurous, thats what she wants, you'll start being the guy she wish she had.

    does that answer your question?

    Good luck bro

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    Default Re: Bf destroyer advice

    Yeah it does.

    However, could you give me some suggestions of messages that you might write back in response to what she told me?

    I'm just not sure if i should keep expanding on what I have, or go a different route?

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    Default Re: Bf destroyer advice

    I’m impressed. Well I have to go meet my friend at the gym. Talk to you later. I’m glad you understand my dilemma.

    she's busy seeing a friend, give her some space(let the seed grow hahaha), I highlighted her key words above!

    See if she reintiates conversation. start implying your more interesting then her boyfriend for example:

    If she text you in 5 hours saying " what are you upto?"

    say: " planning my next adventure." (should arise curiosity)

    HB: " whats the adventure?"

    you say" i'm going for a bush walk, but i tend to go off the track, i indulge myself in the feeling of freedom, i fell it seprates me from the 9-5 lifestyle i love and love the feeling of knowing my phone has no reception and if anything where to go wrong i can only rely on myself. Do you know what i mean?"

    that sentence has expressive words - feeling and arouses her imagination, it has adventure, risk and fun, plus its unique.

    you can apply that to all activetys, it doesnt have to be bush walking.

    after that she should be hooked in and you can invite her to join you while applying negs

    Good luck bro

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    Default Re: Bf destroyer advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    Iím impressed. Well I have to go meet my friend at the gym. Talk to you later. Iím glad you understand my dilemma.

    she's busy seeing a friend, give her some space(let the seed grow hahaha), I highlighted her key words above!

    See if she reintiates conversation. start implying your more interesting then her boyfriend for example:

    If she text you in 5 hours saying " what are you upto?"

    say: " planning my next adventure." (should arise curiosity)

    HB: " whats the adventure?"

    you say" i'm going for a bush walk, but i tend to go off the track, i indulge myself in the feeling of freedom, i fell it seprates me from the 9-5 lifestyle i love and love the feeling of knowing my phone has no reception and if anything where to go wrong i can only rely on myself. Do you know what i mean?"

    that sentence has expressive words - feeling and arouses her imagination, it has adventure, risk and fun, plus its unique.

    you can apply that to all activetys, it doesnt have to be bush walking.

    after that she should be hooked in and you can invite her to join you while applying negs

    Good luck bro

    Regards,

    Tyrone
    And since I don't have her number...we mainly just chat on fb, should I just wait for her to initiate again, or try again in a few days with something similar?

    Regards,

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    Default Re: Bf destroyer advice

    if she is online just let her intiate, mabie right a status saying " you cant wait for two weeks time" so she see's it, she should intiate weather its on status, pm or chat. then smash her with that. or otherwise wait a few days " and explain you have had "very important issues to deal with over the last few days"

    That worked on my ex hard hahahaha

    but just see what happens first, keep my updated and from what she says we can plann a far greater attack. becuase now where assuming she responding the way we wont and it most likely will differ so we just keep moving 1 step at a time.

    You can private message me or do it on this, i check this site every half hour and more than happy to share my knoledge,

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    Default Re: Bf destroyer advice

    i feel ya man its obouvs she likes you keep talking to her she'll dump him evently thats really the best you can do us show that you are there for her and that you care about her

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    Default Re: Bf destroyer advice

    I'm bumping this OP becuase i think our discussion should be view and shared with the community
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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