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    Default Re: Doubts on PUA community

    The PUA material is about being the best that you can be, social, fearless when approaching people, assertive, work for your goals. All the skills you develop to get girls..will help you with other aspects of your live. With business for example, sometimes I also asked myself if I could be the same shy guy I used to be in H.S. And time after time, I always come to the same conclusion. It is not easy to talk to girls when you are a shy guy..it is not pleasant having aa. But when thinking of the alternative, being lonely, envying guys with hot girlfriends, watching porn and masturbating is much worse! Also, having a good job, and a lot of money without social skills that will allow you to go at, at talk to any girl you find attractive and create attraction on that girls is priceless. Having that power, is essential for true happiness in a guys life, other wise you will not be fully complete!

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    Default Re: Doubts on PUA community

    Dandylion, if you leave, you will be missed.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Doubts on PUA community

    Quote Originally Posted by Bandit View Post
    Hey man, I get where you're coming from. A lot of people do. I wrote a post about how I was worried that Pick Up was changing me for the worst. It's here you want to read it. But don't focus on what I wrote, look at the responses. Everyone goes through a period where they start to have doubts. I was personally worried that I was losing a part of myself.

    The trick is to make it your own. If you become someone else you're just being fake and people will pick up on it. You've got to adapt your game to who you are. Of you're the strong silent type, then be that. No one says you have to go to clubs or pick up high energy girls, you can pick up girls in coffee shops or book stores or at work or on the street or at the pool or anywhere you want. The point is, make it your own. My game isn't anything like Cody's or Virgils or Xavier's or Roosters or Tyrone's or anyone else's cause its mine. I made it my own and so did they, and so can you. It is completely possible.

    One last thing. You don't have to be the life of the party to be considered social. Just be genuinely interested in other people, make them feel like they matter, and they'll be drawn to you. You can still be reserved and quiet, just don't shut people out.
    Thanks a lot, man.

    Your post really put things into perspective to me, and it's clear to me you understand what I was trying to figure out.

    I just need to, like you said, make it my own, and find my own style.

    Regards,

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    Quote Originally Posted by Conquistador82 View Post
    The PUA material is about being the best that you can be, social, fearless when approaching people, assertive, work for your goals. All the skills you develop to get girls..will help you with other aspects of your live. With business for example, sometimes I also asked myself if I could be the same shy guy I used to be in H.S. And time after time, I always come to the same conclusion. It is not easy to talk to girls when you are a shy guy..it is not pleasant having aa. But when thinking of the alternative, being lonely, envying guys with hot girlfriends, watching porn and masturbating is much worse! Also, having a good job, and a lot of money without social skills that will allow you to go at, at talk to any girl you find attractive and create attraction on that girls is priceless. Having that power, is essential for true happiness in a guys life, other wise you will not be fully complete!
    Appreciate your perspective on my concern, really.

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    Default Re: Doubts on PUA community

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    Dandylion, if you leave, you will be missed.
    Tyrone1991,

    Thanks man. I don't think i'll be leaving anytime soon, just trying to find a balance, and really figure out my style and where I belong.

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    Default Re: Doubts on PUA community

    Be all that you can be buddy...find your style..like in Kung fu! But do find the girl or girls that we all PUAs (guys) are looking for!
    Like Saint Augustine said "Give me chastity.., but not yet!"

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    Default Re: Doubts on PUA community

    Quote Originally Posted by Conquistador82 View Post
    Be all that you can be buddy...find your style..like in Kung fu! But do find the girl or girls that we all PUAs (guys) are looking for!
    Like Saint Augustine said "Give me chastity.., but not yet!"
    Haha, thanks man.

    Your quote on Saint Augustine is from that movie The Tao of Steve

    Regards,

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    Default Re: Doubts on PUA community

    when you saw my gym game thing did you notice how used my strengths to seduce and create mystery. you can do it too, its eay once you know what are your natural attractive features, ask your ex's what she liked about you and use it to create game bro. i know you can do it, ive seen your talent.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Doubts on PUA community

    Quote Originally Posted by DandyLion View Post
    Cody,

    Could you explain a little more what you mean by these misconceptions?

    Regards,

    DandyLion
    Honestly, I'm going to have to get back to you on this DandyLion. I don't think I'm currently at a place where I can adequately answer, but in time.

    All I can say for now is that I hope you don't give up on The Community. You're a good guy. We need guys like you. Stay strong.
    Wondering where I am now? Check out my latest project:


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    Default Re: Doubts on PUA community

    Hey man, i feel you brother. Before i started this i used to be the shy guy in high school. I realized i had missed so many chances with so many girls, that i needed change. Change for the better. I only started doing this over a month ago. I see change, and i recently gt an f close on a girl. But i felt cold inside. Cause i used these Tricks, dhv stories , routines. I felt like this girl was just a safe. And i cracked the code.But i do have a question for those that have been in the community for a while now.



    these methods, openers, routines, are things to only get you started?Like the trainjng wheel to the bicycle? Or the bicycle itself?


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