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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    Hey Bud,

    I have to agree with the previous posters. Try to remember every time this has happened to you and try to find a pattern. It might be hard because sometimes we think that nothings wrong with our game. Maybe a more detailed post of the last 2 interactions you had this happen, and someone can give advice and breakdown your game more.

    All I can think of is either you ATTRACTED them, but not ENOUGH. In this case like previously stated, you can use push/pull and not be so available to them.

    Or you built too much comfort when they were only mildly attracted!!...

    Were you in a sexual relationship with these girls? or just hooking up? ... Maybe that could be it??.....More info would do wonders...This is an interesting post!!

    Cheers,

    INter101

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    Hi Inter and Link777,

    You guys mentioned that building too much comfort and not enough attraction gets you in the friendzone. How to get out of this? Push/Pull..how can you tell or indicate a girl not to get too comfortable with you?

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    no it never got sexual, we never even dated. I met, attracted, built rapport, number closed, followed up and made a date but it just never happened...

    You may be right that I didnt do enough push/pull and was too available and there was too much comfort. How do I prevent there from being too much comfort anyway?

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    Hey man, i think you may have just answered the question yourself. I'm not saying you have to bang the first night, but if you dont turn things sexual fairly quickly... your going to get friendzoned and they'll find someone else that will.

    If this girl was nothing more than your text buddy, dosnt really surprise me this happened. So basically it may have moved to slow? Not sure what your timeframe was from meeting her to her "met someone" text?

    Trust me shit like this has happened to me though too.. but i havnt generally gotten a text like that. Usually theyll just dissapear, and sometimes reappear awhile later or i'll just write them off.

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    well I definately do not become text buddies with these women. I go from meeting them to texting only to set up dates. Thats what Magnetic Messaging by bobby rio says to do. Dont talk over text. Just make a joke to initiate contact, and then when she replies try to set up a date. Lol with so little room for error I dont know what I have been doing wrong.

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    Quote Originally Posted by digitsoftime View Post
    Hi Inter and Link777,

    You guys mentioned that building too much comfort and not enough attraction gets you in the friendzone. How to get out of this? Push/Pull..how can you tell or indicate a girl not to get too comfortable with you?
    Hey buds,

    When you build too much comfort( i.e. being too nice, talking about Fluff, getting to know each other) and you don't mix in SEXUALITY it can be tough. Think about it. YOu have to set the tone with a girl right away. A women is all about sexuality. You have to build that comfort obviously, but subtly throw in sexuality. Like when your talking, use push/pull. Escalate slowly and see how she reacts. Ex: (at first) always brake away from a hug first, always send the last txt, touch her back then nonchalantly take it off. Put your hand on her leg and continue a conversation with someone else. .... These subtle things lets a girl know that you are a potential fuck!!!.. If you don't do these things she will subconsciously put you in the He's not interested, he's not alpha, he doesn't know how to start seducing a woman etc... Now it doesn't mean that it's over if you don't do these things, but your studying to be a PUA so why not give yourself the best possible chance to succeed. .. Trust me, Im so good at attracting and opening, its sick!!! I just suck when I start getting feelings!! haha...

    Inter1010

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    sorry also,
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    How can you indicate a girl not get too comfortable with you?

    .... You indicate by mixing in the SEXUALITY.... but don't get me wrong. you want her to get comfortable. But its imperative that she is attracted as well. Then get a comfortable as you want. !!!

    Inter1010

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    ok so along with affectionate touching, are you saying you should talk about sex? Or not? I have always felt I got ahead of other guys by not talking about sex, because I have heard most other guys bring it up right away, like in their first conversation,a nd will want to talk about favorite sexual positions and acts, which is a huge turn off to women (at that point), who then feel the guy is a creep. Whenever I have talked about sexuality its been in a much more mature and even an intellectual manner which shows that I am not a creep. But I may not be using it in the proper manner, I guess I just am not sure about what I am doing right or wrong. So if you do recommend talking about sex, what way(s) do you recommend doing so?

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    I guess it depends on the vibe you're getting while talking to /texting this girl, but I would say the majority of the time I wouldn't start actually talking about sex until after you met for the first date, or better yet in person. She dosn't even know you at this point... it will come accross as creepy.

    However you can still try to maintain some sexual tension in your conversation, again by using Push Pull or teasing/flirty statements. I usually get a good response by using texts that appear to be one thing, but have an IOD calibrator (MM stuff) on the end.

    "When I get to your door later, I want to see you standing there naked, so I can pick you up, touch your soft skin, move you to the couch, and then..... ask.. what's wrong with you? Do you always come to the door naked.. "

    Possibly a lame example... but I've actually sent something similar before and she got noticeably turned on (told me and continued on the role playing vibe, keeping things sexual herself). But again I myself wouldn't even text anything like this until after I've already been seeing them a bit, or probably even slept with them already.

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    Quote Originally Posted by SexualSorcerer333 View Post
    ok so along with affectionate touching, are you saying you should talk about sex? Or not? I have always felt I got ahead of other guys by not talking about sex, because I have heard most other guys bring it up right away, like in their first conversation,a nd will want to talk about favorite sexual positions and acts, which is a huge turn off to women (at that point), who then feel the guy is a creep. Whenever I have talked about sexuality its been in a much more mature and even an intellectual manner which shows that I am not a creep. But I may not be using it in the proper manner, I guess I just am not sure about what I am doing right or wrong. So if you do recommend talking about sex, what way(s) do you recommend doing so?
    Hey Bud,

    Nooooo don't get me wrong. Just because I say you have to turn on SEXUALITY does NOT mean you have to talk about sex!!! ..... In fact its better to do the exact opposite. I also, feel it comes off creepy to talk about sexual positions on the first date or even second or third!!! Unless its a Fark buddy.... You can get a little sexual in your talk but it all depends on how the women is, and how she is saying it. IS she laughing about it? is use serious about it?? Calibrate and figure it out.... Personally I do the opposite. Think about it! Im in conversation with her and my hands gently rubbing her leg/thigh at dinner and she makes a sexual comment. I immediately call her out like "wow, your a little perv huh?" or " OMG I'm sitting next to a nymphomaniac" - I say this with a light smile/teasing her in a way. Then a bit later i'll rest my hand on her thigh and just leave it there... YOu see what I mean?? .... She's getting mixed signals, but Im rewarding her sexually(hand on thigh) the more sexual she gets, even though I make those remarks verbally.

    Good luck


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