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    Default A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    So you have been talking to a girl, or maybe even seeing her, but she suddenly one day texts you and says she has "met someone and has started seeing them and wants to see where it goes"....Obviously this makes no sense, because why wouldnt she want to see where it goes with both of you. Seems like some sort of ethical dillema, or maybe just a breakdown of logic on her part. Either way This has happened to me a few times and I am just dumbfounded that a woman would be this intellectually unavialable LOL, and make such an absurd decision to burn bridges for someone she was not even committed to. I am not sure what I have siad in the past but this happened to me again today and I said "thats cool I meet and see lots of people and like seeing where it goes too". But obviously my methods are not working. Are there any responses anyone out there has used before and found has worked well?

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    tricky situation, sounds like a defence mechanism. did you say something to turn her off?

    or did that line just come out of the blue?

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    Hello good sir,
    It seems like to me she is basically saying "hey sexual sorcerer I like you, but no thanks" I think she's sort of letting you down easy and basically friend zoning you. The friend zone happens when you build too much comfort and not enough attraction. I think there is something you are messing up in your initial game that is leading to this outcome. Rethink what your doing, or post on here the events that lead up to this and I can try to help you out. Hope this helps
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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    No it was totally out of the blue man. Every time it happened she would just text me out of the blue. One time the woman even said that she really liked me, found me extremely interesting, and enjoyed me on many levels, and even found my texts hilarious and loved getting the, but had met a woman and likes breasts more than cock and was no longer available. The other woman was one I went to school with and had always liked and she was very thankful to be able to go out on a date with me because I was the big badass rock star back in high school. But somehow anothe rguy muscled in on me and she freaking cancelled the date on me after being so excited for it! The other 1 or 2 girls were lame and I was like yea whatever. But obviously its becoming a pattern I must stop!

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    Maybe you're like goodluckchuck except girls find what they are looking for while they talk to to you.

    its your game, I am gonna make a guess and say you are not making them chase you enough and that availability is destroying attraction.

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    Lol actually link its much worse than that. When women do this I shrug them off and am like "yea I meet/see a lot of people too, so what?" and then they will proceed and I'll be like "well its whatever girl, we can just be friends, and you can help me pick up chicks!" or something like that. But I will always push to keep the interactions going. But they will either say they arent looking for friends they are looking for a boyfriend, or will just start ignoring me! So no, they are not trying to friend zone me, unfortunately they are trying to break up with me before we have even actually dated! idk if I am doing something wrong or what, I am certainly following all the textbook rules, the only thing that I can think of is that my frame just isnt strong enough yet, and that my environment that I live in is a very shitty one full of shitty people with limited consciousnesses and intellects and probably toxic personalities. This happens in smaller cities. Its something I have been thinking about for a while and am just not good enough to combat yet.

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    Lol so I should text them less? Seems like that may make them more available to other guys.

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    I think something is missing man. There is no way this is just coincidence. There is something you are doing wrong in the process, like it's pretty obvious you have the attraction going for you. But how's your comfort building?

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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    I get this sh*t weekly. It's no big deal. It's basically her saying that what you two had was fun, but she has met somebody now that she wants to seriously consider dating exclusively. This is especially common with your booty calls.

    Be happy for her and cheer her on. That's what you would like in return if the situation were flipped. She just feels obligated to give you a heads up. Let her know all is well and wish her the best.

    She'll be back, and if she doesn't good for her. You handled it with a dhv and she'll remember that.
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    Default Re: A girl your talking to or seeing says she met someone....

    As someone who lives in one of the most dangerous cities in the U.S. I know how environment can play a part in your game. Still it's not an overall factor. Alot of it still depends on you.

    There seems to be something in your game to prompt this if this is becoming a pattern. Usually the issue lies with attraction. Very tough to wrap ones head around exactly how it works. Not saying they aren't interested. Just that they may not be attracted enough. I suggest studying anything you can about push/pull. Swinggcat is the master at this concept.


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