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    raw111 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to reduce/talk down the shame or stigma of casual sex

    Basically, I met this girl who up for it but then randomly she asked me what would other people think of her for having sex so soon after meeting a guy. I fumbled my words and said they will be jealous.

    Can anyone think of a 3 or 4 line thing I could have said about artificial boundaries and how we should ignore society expectations ? and how I wouldnt tell anyone. Something about how we would both enjoy sex and should worry about what other people think later

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    Default Re: How to reduce/talk down the shame or stigma of casual sex

    Tell her:

    "I think there is more value to a woman than what's between her legs. So putting so much weight on something so natural is strange to me."

    Or do what I do and keep escalating while calling her a sillygoose. Tease her for being so serious.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: How to reduce/talk down the shame or stigma of casual sex

    I will usually talk about how 'special' a relationship is. Its not 'casual' its 'special'. Not everything lasts, not everything is easy, what goes up must come down but try emphasize that it's worth it. That it is special no matter how fast, how long the relationship lasts or whatever other people think of it.


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