What's up guys!
Kinda drunk so please bear with me.
Tonight was the first night of my college career where I finally & successfully worked my game I had built up over the summer. I was approaching with ease, gaming with ease, and even k-closed two girls who I had been into since I was a freshman (I'm a senior now).
Anyways, despite my awesome night there was one girl in particular who has been on my mind for the past hour (sounds short, but it feels like a lifetime)...
Background: Surprisingly I've always been crushing on this girls roommate but tonight I was all about her...lets call her "GIRL"
I was at a 21st bday for and good friend of mine and GIRL was the first person I saw when I walked in the door...immediatley my "game" brain kicked in and I negged her by saying, "you look so dead, did you have a rough night last night??".....After saying that she was kinda shocked/upset and said how rude that was...I was able to play around w/ her and made it seem like not too big a deal....luckily
ANYWAYS, throughout the night I feel like I had plenty of opportunities to build attraction w/ her but I kept thinking to myself..."what if my neg really upset her" OR "what if she hates me"....I FEEL LIKE SUCH A FARKING AFC
I guess my question is...what do you do when a neg affects the girl so much that they actually feel hurt by it?
BTW, at the end of the night, I ended up isolating the girl and making her a napkin flower (which she somewhat loved) but I'm wondering if I negged her too hard from the get go...let me be the first to say that she is an HB7 at best and I'm one of few guys she feels comfortable around...I just feel like I was too harsh...perhaps I'm just so accustomed to my "nice" nature that I feel bad putting any girl down w/ a neg....ANY advice?