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    Default Body Langauge and Drinking

    We all know after a few drinks in us our nervous system isn't working its best, my questions is how does this affect peoples body language. Does drinking make it more or less noticeable, and are there certain thinks you'll do when you're drunk that you won't sober (as far as subconscious body language lol). I ask because I've been reading up a lot about the subject lately and am going out tonight so if any of you have some useful information on this please share.
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    Default Re: Body Langauge and Drinking

    well you are usually more relaxed when you drink and not all tense when your sober. so it does have an effect on the body language
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    Default Re: Body Langauge and Drinking

    the most noticable ones are a slump in posture, you might stare more, voice tonality might be slurred, man get hammered one night and get someone to video you if you want to see how you look drunk / sober (y) people react differently to booze

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    Default Re: Body Langauge and Drinking

    Staring is definitely the big thing for me with drinking, I always end up like staring into space :L lmao

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    Default Re: Body Langauge and Drinking

    Haha on the off chance I do drink, I just get really ballsy and exaggerate all my emotions which is a good thing but then I stop thinking or caring about the outcome and end up blowing it. As far as reading a drunk persons body language goes, you can't expect anything in particular. The pupils dialating trick doesn't work anymore, when she puts her and on your shoulder its no longer an ioi, its more because she doesn't want to fall on the floor. I've noticed much of the IOD's are the same though
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    Default Re: Body Langauge and Drinking

    Drinking during pickup is a "challenging" thing to master IMO...I'll admit I typically get a buzz when in the field but too much can kill you...mentally and physically

    Find a good limit that gets you relaxed but still able to socialize and act perfectly normal..for me, about 5 drinks will do the trick.

    With this being said...DO NOT use alcohol as your primary aid for PUA...PUA is about developing your social skills and becoming the ABSOLUTE BEST YOU possible and this means the best SOBER you...I hate saying this because I sound like a hypocrite but I'm at a level in my game where I'm the same sober or at a buzz..

    As far as body language...I find that after a few drinks I start conveying more Alpha body language and this is especially related to my posture when talking to a set or 1 girl after Isolation...I tend to talk to them over my shoulder rather than showing them my chest. I also make my target lean into me rather than leaning into her during conversation.

    My advice - Make a conscious effort to convey Alpha body language when your sober and you will tend to do this naturally when you drink

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    OMG...5 drinks!!!??? The night is over and over fast... I'm going with two back to back(Redbull n Vodka)Then I'm sipping on the next... I think the alcohol loosens everything up makes you less self conscience and you could always say "It was the alcohol"... So I do agree with being the Best sober You not against a lil something to knock that edge off.

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    Default Re: Body Langauge and Drinking

    Fair enough..I think we're all in aggreeance here haha

    And ya, 5 drinks puts me in a good state of mind...but keep in mind that I'm a pretty "big guy"...over 6 feet and about 180lbs...so ya, 5 drinks is pretty good.
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    Default Re: Body Langauge and Drinking

    What body language should we be looking for if a girl is really interested?

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    Default Re: Body Langauge and Drinking

    throwing herself onto you and feeling you up, to put it simple


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