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    Mack3 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default She comes over but wont have sex

    Im still only getting 7 or 8s and clearly not where i want to be with my game yet. But lately getting women to come over my house hasnt been to much of a struggle. In fact sometimes i can just tell them over the phone that they should come over and they would be okay with that.The problem for me arises when they actually get here.

    The women give me alot of ioi and hug up on me, theyll try and play fight with me and sometimes they will even start kissing me.but when i try to go from making out and caressing them, to trying to undress them then they start saying no theyre not ready or say something like "lets slow down before we go to far". i usually will try to push it and act as if no means yes but the furthest i might get is her to lift her shirt up but they wont let me undo their pants.what am i doing wrong here?is there some Technic here that im missing.it confuses me because they really seem to be into me until i try to have sex with them but then they stop me.shell be moaning and pressing her body against mine and all of a sudden just want to cuddle and kiss on me for the rest of the time theyre at my house.its so frustrating sometimes i want to tell them "if your not having sex with me what are you doing in my bed.get out."lol.but i dont say it.some help please fellas

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    Default Re: She comes over but wont have sex

    Lol yeah the "put out or get out" line usually only ends with you NOT having to change your sheets the next day xD

    It sounds like you've built attraction really well but need to build more comfort.

    Are these girls who you've gone on a date with? Are they friends you've known for a while? Do you immediately start Kino when they come in or do you cook dinner / talk over a meal or watch a movie or take a walk or something?
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    Default Re: She comes over but wont have sex

    i have the same problem man i can get them all hot but the sex just doesnt happen idk why either i will be following this post.
    im on a different level

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    Mack3 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: She comes over but wont have sex

    these are girls i havnt known for a long time but we hung out at least once or twice before they come to my house.usually for like the first half hour they're here, we usually watch tv or a movie and sometimes eat.well hold hands,cuddle,rest my hand in between her thigh, so i think the Kino is usually there well before i try escalating into sex.

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    Default Re: She comes over but wont have sex

    The reason I asked about early Kino is that while you do need to kino escalate before sex, you also need to build non-kino comfort before escalating.

    Try a few cold reads and actively search for reasons to be attracted to her beyond her beauty - tease her if you can't find any.
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