So you're in college, out meeting girls and having a great time. You've been running your game, and at this point done all the hard stuff. You've met a girl, gotten her to fall for you, and now you're looking to close the deal.
Here's how you do it...
First thing's first, you've got to get her up to your room. There a lot of reasons to do this. In reality, it's just an excuse to get her up there, and she knows that. But it's got to be believable so that when she tells it later it'll sound like the whole thing "just sort of happened". It all has to feel like it's "just happening". You want this to be one of those awesome college mistakes/memories that everyone makes without thinking. Now, the reason for her to come up can literally be anything. Tell her it's to watch a movie, do some homework, watch a clip on her computer, kill time, or even that you have to pick up/drop off something in your room. Try and build it off something you've talked about in the past, it'll feel all the more natural.
Now that a girl is up in your room, then it's safe to say that pretty much all the hard stuff is already done. You've conquered the fear and concerns girls get when going into a guy's room (this differs with different girls, but always present in some form or fashion). And that's not even the best part. The best part is that you know she's at least considered the possibility of a hook up and even if she hasn't decided whether she will or not yet, she's willing to put herself in that situation. It's up to you to take it the rest of the way.
Now on the off chance you haven't done this already, you should take out or put up any places to sit that aren't your bed. The exception is a couch big enough to do it on, which most guys don't have. For example, in my room I've got my desk chair off in the corner and pushed in, and a folding chair for watching tv that I keep under my bed when I'm not using it. That leaves the bed as the only natural place to sit (that's the million dollar word, natural). My final piece of advice is, make your bed. Keep your room looking good, and if you have a roommate get him to do it too. It'll set you apart from the rest of the messy college guys.
So you're on the bed, you're building attraction with some teasing and being playfully sexual. But you've got to make your move. So start some kino. Nudge her playfully on her shoulder if she teases you back. Then build up a bit, touch her arm when making a point or getting to the good part in a story and hold it for a few seconds. Check for discomfort, and move on. If she tells an embarrassing story or gives you a compliment, pat/scratch/rub her back and hold it there for a few seconds (you want to be increasing the amount of time you leave your hand on her body as you go on). If she does something you think is cute, put your arm around her shoulder and pull her in close and tell her something along the lines of "You are just too damn cute". Now this time around, just leave your arm there and see if she pulls away. Chances are when she sees your not moving your arm she'll cuddle up against you. You are now in cuddle mode, and you can escalate a lot faster. After a while pull her legs over yours or sit her on your lap or something like that. (Note: this is an example of what smooth kino progression looks like. This isn't a rulebook or a cheat code or anything you should follow to the letter. You'll have to adapt to different girl. What works for an adorable little freshman isn't going to work for a strong independant junior. It's all about calibration, you'll get the hang of it in no time)
Now this'll be the time when you start building up to the kiss. Move your heads closer together, look her in the eyes but occasionally glance down at her lips or the rest of her body. Stroke her legs or run your fingers through her hair or something equally sensual. There'll come a silence, you'll look at each other's eyes and lips and either one or both of you will start to lean in. If she leans in, let her come all the way. If she doesn't you take the lead. if you've ever seen the movie Hitch, you know about the 90% rule. I love that rule. If you're leaning in, only go 90% of the way. She'll do the rest.
And then you're kissing, and then you're making out and your hands are roaming over her body. Start playing with the edges of her clothes. Slide your fingers into her jeans and just kind of graze the ass. Run your hand up her waist and pull her shirt up with it. Slide your hands up her leg, pushing her skirt up as you go along. Just slowly start playing with more and more skin. Now chances are you'll meet some LMR or ASD as you're doing this. There are other people who can guide you through that better than I, but in my experience the best thing you can do is to take a few steps back, build up a little more passion and try again. If she does it again, do a freezeout. If that doesn't work, well that's out of my area of expertise. Very rarely do they resist a good Freeze Out. They're in your room, after all, they want a good hook up.
Now lets assume you have been exposing more and more of her body and touching more and more of her skin. Eventually she'll take off her clothes but if not, you do it. Now's the time to go a little caveman. Lift her up, pull off her shirt and toss it down to the end of the bed (not on the floor, we'll get to that later). It's ok to leave her bra on at this point. Then lean her back, and go for the bottoms (read: shorts, skirt, or pants). Now this is important, so listen up. ALWAYS TAKE THE BOTTOMS AND HER UNDERWEAR OFF AT THE SAME TIME. This goes back to making it feel natural, and it'll be one less barrier for you to deal with later. Very rarely will she reach down and pull the underwear back up. Now that her panties are off, you can go for the bra. She won't resist now, cause her panties are already off so there's no point keeping the bra.
Throughout the process of undressing her you should be losing your clothes too. You can let her do it, either by telling her too or by lifting her hands to the item you want to take off. Or you can just do it yourself, but keep that caveman energy. Now you can either get under the covers, which I recommend if she's being shy, or you can do it on top (which is a lot sexier in my book).
Now don't fool yourself into thinking girls don't talk about this stuff. They do. And you want to get a good review. And even if she doesn't, you want her want to do it again. So the best thing you can do is make sure she has a great time. And this may be a shock to you guys, but your penis isn't going to cut it. We're talking fingers and mouth. I've read She Comes First by Ian Kerner and ever since then I haven't had a single dissatisfied customer. Read the book, cause there's too much in it for me to explain.
Now you can do one of two things. You can either finish her once (just to make sure she comes) and then have sex, or you can try and time it so that you go in when she's already close and hopefully push her over the edge while you're inside her. Timing it's hard, cause if she finishes she will be sensitive down there and she might ask you to stop before you're done, but you're less likely to encounter resistance if she's already on the brink of orgasm.
Positions are a bit limited on college beds, but you can still do the basics and lets be honest, you're not going to be swinging from the ceiling having crazy monkey sex in a crowded college dorm with RA's walking around. Missionary is easy to do, especially if one of you is on top of the other. I recommend you be on top first to set the tempo
and if she's getting into it then you can pull out, pick her up and flip her on top of you and have her go cowgirl. There's also doggystyle, which is usually pretty satisfying for the girl assuming you can get it in there. 69 is possible, but that's not really sex, that's just fancy oral. Other than that, just experiment and see what you can do.
Tips and Logistics:
The golden rule is always lock the door. The last thing you want is someone sticking their head in and killing the mood. Just do it as soon as you walk in and it won't be a big deal.
If you have a roommate, work out a system with them. Either shoot them a text saying you need the room for a while or do the whole sock on the door thing, whatever, just figure something out. You don't want them coming in while you're getting it on, and they don't want to be greeted by your naked @ss when they walk in the door.
Like I said before, keep your room clean. It goes a long way.
Also, it doesn't hurt if you can offer them something to drink. I usually keep a bottle of whiskey in my room (for my bros) and a bottle of vodka (for the ladies).
Don't give girls: whiskey, bourbon, beer, malt drinks, or anything else that's too strong.
Do give girls: vodka, tequila, mixed drinks, hard lemonade, or wine.
I mentioned a couple of times that you shouldn't toss clothes on the floor. This is cause you want them to be within reach in case something goes wrong (ex. Fire alarm, RA showing up, parents dropping by for a surprise visit, roommate not checking his phone, and the list goes on). It's just a good habit to have.
Don't be stupid. Use protection. I've heard most colleges have free condoms that they give out. Even if they don't you can pick them up pretty much anywhere. Keep one tucked away in your wallet or in your desk drawer. Now the timing is tricky as this can give the girl another chance to object. Find some way to get one in your pocket or keep the box some where near your bed. Do it quietly and quickly, don't make a big show of it. If she's really into it and she seems down, then get her to put it on. If she might be a little hesitant, then do it yourself while pleasuring her with your mouth or free hand. Keep her thinking about something else.
If she's a virgin, be careful. You can do some serious damage if you just shove it in there. Believe it or not, you don't really pop her cherry, and the hymen never goes away. It just gets spread open. So work it a little with your fingers first, spread it open gradually. Take it slow when you finally do put it in, slow but consistent pressure. Then when it's in, hold it there and comfort her a bit, then keep going.
No means no. I shouldn't even have to say that, but sadly I do. Before you put it in, shoot her a quick check to make sure she's ok with it. Don't screw around with anyone who's really drunk, cause if they don't remember the next morning she can still accuse you of rape, whether or not she said yes at the time. It's a slippery slope, so play it safe and don't put yourself in that situation.
Be discreet. Don't be a d1ck that brags about the fact that he hooked up with a girl, you'll just give her a bad reputation. And no girl will want to hook up with you if they know the whole campus is going to hear about it the next morning. Be discreet, be mature, be mysterious. A gentleman never tells.