Just got from a dinner with a girl. She was cooking for me at her place. It was nice, because we were flirting a bit and while cooking we were kissing and making out.
Then dinner was ready, so cooling a bit down just eating and talking.
After the dinner she suggested to watch a movie on her couch.
And I wanted to escalate a bit while watching the movie, but did it too fast, I could feel that. So I think I ruined it at that point arghgh.
I asked whatsup, and she said we shouldnt kiss, be friends etc etc etc.
She said, you only want to kiss, not watch the movie.
So i said a thing like, i really like you, not only for kissing and all that.
After that we kissed again few minutes later.
She wanted to go to sleep and I was pushing a bit for a goodbye kiss. So dammit I acted needy, hit myself on the head for that.
She's a girl I met several times and have chemistry with, we're always kissing and stuff. But really difficult to sleep with.
Her anti slut defense thingie is really high up and says things like, let's be friends and all that. And she's not really a type to do one night stand things. She wants to be sure someone really likes her, and she throws a high barrier at me.
And later on we kiss again. So it messes my mind up a bit how to act on that, because it happened several times.
Is it good to talk about how I like her, and not just for physical??
Would it up the attraction, or kill it?