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Thread: Suppose I say this to a coworker, how would it do?

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    Default Suppose I say this to a coworker, how would it do?

    There's this cute coworker of mine who I see on occasion but we never have had extensive chat yet. I was thinking the next time I am talking to her and along the lines, I go something like this:
    "Hey ABC, I know this is completely random and all so don't take this the wrong way but(pause say 5secs) ... has anyone told you that you have an adorable voice because I just realized that now".

    Whatever she responds, I'll just tap her on the shoulder/elbow and say,"I just thought it's something you need to know". Then, smile and walk away and leave her at that.

    Would you guys say this is an effective line or would it give her an awkward vibe and all? Does it seem like a comment that I'm giving her too much power or come off as creepy?

    I want to stick out as I'm sure not many guys have said that to her(she has a rather high voice) and perhaps she may be insecure about this. Please give me your comments and insights about whatever and I'll be happy to read them!

    Thanks beforehand!

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    Default Re: Suppose I say this to a coworker, how would it do?

    I'd say youŽll come off as a retard if you tell her that she has an adorable voice, especially if she has a rather high voice as you say. She will probably think that youŽre just mocking her in an arrogant way.

    Why not say something like this instead

    You: "Hey ABC, can I ask you something?"
    Her: "Yeah... sure."
    You: "Do you sing?"
    Her: "No, why?"

    Then you tell that you think she has a beautiful voice and bla bla bla...

    Or sheŽll say

    Yes, I do... how did you know?

    You: "I bet you were a singer! I love to hear your voice in the corridor, it cheers me up when I have my boring work to do =)"

    Whatever you say, let us know the outcome =)

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    Default Re: Suppose I say this to a coworker, how would it do?

    Quote Originally Posted by RaginAsianC View Post
    Would you guys say this is an effective line or would it give her an awkward vibe and all? Does it seem like a comment that I'm giving her too much power or come off as creepy?

    I'd say it's not an effective line - it's an effective conversation-starter. If you say it with the demeanor of a line (like if you treat it as a direct approach) then it will come off as creepy. Instead just use it as a casual conversation starter - "you have a nice voice" stack to "I used to do music dhv" (if you did) OR "when I was a kid in church choir *cute story*" (if you were) OR "something topical and cocky/funny about contemporary singers" - whatever - stack to anything else.

    That's what I'd do, treat it as no more of a "line" than asking to borrow a stapler would be a "line"
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