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Thread: Running BF destroyer on HB8.5

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    Default Running BF destroyer on HB8.5

    Ok, so one of my roomies brought this HB 8.5 over 2 weeks ago. He has failed without any intervention by me to game her, and has given me the go ahead to run game on her.

    I have established myself as the AMOG of our mutual circle of friends using body language, story telling, my physical presence, and cockyfunny. Tonight, I got much further and need to embark on BF destroyer in earnest if you guys can help me out .

    I have established attraction, run through A1-C1, she knows I'm alpha, preselected, and is intrigued. We had that definite vibe going, she was flirting hard, and I was running Cat-string responses.

    She began seductive behavior: touching on stomach, creating mouth-to-mouth proximity, play punches, opening sexual dialogue, complimenting my physique while touching.

    If we weren't in the company of serious cock-blockers and would-be rivals, I would've made the move for a kiss. As it stood this evening, the social environment created too much negative pressure.

    My recon: BF is at another college, long distance, LTR of almost 2 yrs. The relationship has grown dull to a degree (he has stopped calling except once every 3 days, only txts her back promptly at night).

    I've begun the "He must be great at ______, demonstrating such ______" moves. She stopped to think about a couple of them, and didn't confirm that he was great at all to me. In front of her, I spoke to a roommate about possibly seducing a girl who was taken. The HB proceeded to inquire about my thoughts on the morality of doing so. I gave her the "all's fair in love and war," and ll cool j's "if his love is real he has to handle competition." She seemed charmed and didn't voice her disagreement, then she gave me the "you're naughty" look.


    She asked to workout with me sometime, perhaps regularly. But lol, I didn't get her # before she left. My roomie has it, so I'll ask him to text her to meet us for something, then get it.

    Next move? Sorry for long post, I wanted to give as much pertinent info as possible. Thanks guys!

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    Default Re: Running BF destroyer on HB8.5

    Would a Mod please move this thread to the "Ask an Expert" forum? I should've posted there, since that's essentially what I'm doing. Thanks!

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    Default Re: Running BF destroyer on HB8.5

    This area gets plenty of visitors - let's leave it here. (the experts come here also )

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    Default Re: Running BF destroyer on HB8.5

    Wanted to bump this thread, plus give additional info.

    I know a lot of you guys will simply ignore the boyfriend or just say "okay," then proceed with the seduction. I have essentially been on this track over the previous 5 hours of interaction.

    However, she brought up relationships and wanted to know how my last one ended. Unfortunately, I was honest and said cheating. This may have done me some harm since it causes her to contemplate both cheating AND the pain and shame it causes.

    On the other hand, it did give me the opportunity to showcase my sensitive side. I opened up to her a bit, and she reciprocated. It was certainly a bonding conversation, but perhaps pushes me towards the friend zone.

    Any tips on how to proceed? What do you guys think about me leveraging my experience? This girl is only 19, so she has much less relationship hours than I do.

    Thanks again to anyone who has input.

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    Default Re: Running BF destroyer on HB8.5

    The thing about BF destroyer is that it has two parts: the wound and the kill. First you "wound" the relationship by raising him up to an impossible standard so she begins tearing him down. That part alone will only make her single / you aren't necessarily IN until you the relationship is on it's last limp and she sleeps with you.

    At some point after you run BFD on her she'll be essentially "over him" at which point she will seek to validate herself by going to you for a "I'm doubting the relationship" conversation.

    Unfortunately, I think it was this:

    Quote Originally Posted by bighugewildRicky View Post
    However, she brought up relationships and wanted to know how my last one ended.
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    This girl is only 19, so she has much less relationship hours than I do.
    Because she's 19 she knows that this relationship with this BF is not going to last forever, but because she's a girl she kinda wants it to - if that makes sense.

    During this conversation (it might come up again with this chick) the thing to do is to talk about experiences (whether yours or others you know) that make it okay to have sexual experiences with other people after the realtionship is pretty much over tho not broken up WHILE you run Kino on her WHILE you stimulate her sensual emotions (NLP about textures and senses and sh1t)

    This is what I've found with BF destroyer, tho there's plenty of guys on here with more experience with it than I *cough *cough Xavier *cough *cough
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Running BF destroyer on HB8.5

    Thanks, Autismus.

    Does the BF have to be completely "destroyed" for this to work out successfully?

    Tonight advanced to heavy Kino (mutual massage and cuddling). Judging by where and how she let me touch plus her breathing patterns, I have to assume she was wet as hell. I could sense she was just out of reach though, and I didn't want to battle that type of LMR. If it's possible that I have put the cart before the horse, I can certainly backtrack a bit. I suppose I need to cut out the escalation, get back to the BF destroyer phase 1 and finish before advancing?

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    Default Re: Running BF destroyer on HB8.5

    I'd say if you do, run the "phase 1" in a casual social setting, like during a talk about single life, joke that ur not relationship material and how her BF must be awesome, blah blah (phase 1).

    If you try phase 1 when you're alone with her then it probably won't work as well (unless you combine it with phase 2 and say it with a kinda bitter irony) but even then she might get suspicious.

    I'd say next time you hang with her steer the convo to relationships or anywhere else that might get her talking in a way that sets you up for phase 2. Avoid cuddling (FZ danger) but do escalate Kino. If you get to the point where not cuddling would be wierd then I'd go ahead and tell her that it sucks, but sometimes relationships are just over - *eye contact, triangle gaze, then kiss her / break it off to go get a drink or something.
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    Default Re: Running BF destroyer on HB8.5

    Quote Originally Posted by bighugewildRicky View Post
    Thanks, Autismus.

    Does the BF have to be completely "destroyed" for this to work out successfully?

    Tonight advanced to heavy Kino (mutual massage and cuddling). Judging by where and how she let me touch plus her breathing patterns, I have to assume she was wet as hell. I could sense she was just out of reach though, and I didn't want to battle that type of LMR. If it's possible that I have put the cart before the horse, I can certainly backtrack a bit. I suppose I need to cut out the escalation, get back to the BF destroyer phase 1 and finish before advancing?
    you will always get lmr the only time she won't resist is if she has already broken up with the bf (even if it's just in her mind) you can't make her do that by just beeing a HVM so yes get back to it.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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