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    Default Trouble finding a location to f-close a girl

    Hey everyone, I am moving into C3 with a girl from school. There is intense attraction between us and plenty of Kino. The only problem is that I can't move into seduction because I am having trouble finding a place to do it. I only see her at school, and she lives far from campus and me. My house is too far to go to on a normal day, and there is almost always someone at home and at irregular times, so it cannot be planned. There aren't many private places on campus, and it is not a university with dorms that friends would have available. I can't just take her into a restroom and do the deed there, since it would make her uncomfortable to the point where she may not speak to me for a while. She is a virgin (again, the location issue) and somewhat shy. I need a location where everything can proceed with fluidity, so as not to spook her and so she can enjoy herself. Neither of us has a car so that is not an available location.

    Any ideas? Experiences?

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    Default Re: Trouble finding a location to f-close a girl

    What's the weather like by you? Summer sex in some secluded fields is always good

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    Default Re: Trouble finding a location to f-close a girl

    Most girls are actually quite ok having sex in risky or unusual places. I never knew that acutely when I was younger. Being a virgin doesn't change that so long as you make it comfortable. Take a picnic in nature, go to the beach with candles, take a car somewhere nice. The location doesn't matter but the setting or 'feeling' does. If it's her first time she may want it to be 'special'. That again is not dependent on location but your imagination. One candle and a rug can equal special because it at least shows attention to detail and romance. It's how you improvise with what you have. Don't overthink the technical aspect, keep it simple and warm.

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    Default Re: Trouble finding a location to f-close a girl

    Totally agree, women tend to be open to a lot of things guys think they aren't, most guys never figure this out because they are always to scared to try.....but seriously....you don't try you don't get

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    Default Re: Trouble finding a location to f-close a girl

    I see all of your points and completely understand and agree. Problem is, there aren't secluded areas, especially during the day. I'm right in the city. The beach is quite far, so that's worse than just going to either one of our houses. I figure a park may be worth a try, but I have to be very careful since there aren't many secluded areas, if any. Plus one park is part of a civic center, which in this case means a Sheriff's station AND a state superior court (it's actually on my list of adventurous sex locations, but still taking into consideration her mentality). I'm thinking creatively when I'm with her. I'm sure I'll think of something.

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    Default Re: Trouble finding a location to f-close a girl

    Ummm if your at school maybe gym locker room, stay back one night when you know no teams use them and do it there I done this at school once it wasn't our first time together was good fun tho.....there's showers there as well if ya catch my drift

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    Default Re: Trouble finding a location to f-close a girl

    I didn't think of that, it's not a bad idea, but it won't work in this case. A lot of traffic there from non-athletes at all times and she can't stay late at school. It's just a bad situation overall, lol. But I am determined to find a way. I'm going caveman with this.

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    Default Re: Trouble finding a location to f-close a girl

    Ahhh man this is tough :L tell your parents she's 'just a mate', have her stay round yours and wait till everyone is asleep.......it can be soo much more intense if u have to be quiet

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    Default Re: Trouble finding a location to f-close a girl

    Quote Originally Posted by linking View Post
    Ahhh man this is tough :L tell your parents she's 'just a mate', have her stay round yours and wait till everyone is asleep.......it can be soo much more intense if u have to be quiet

    Linking x
    Yeah this was my first few experiences. Girlfriend comes over...doesnt stay the night but we stay up later than my parents do 'watching a movie'. Parents generally will know to leave you alone. When I started college my mother told me no girls could stay over but I just rebelled and brought my girlfriend over. I wasn't bring lots of different random girls over - just a girl who turned into a LTR so it was ok - not much my mum could do. Do any of your friends have group houses or somewhere you can use?

    You could also save up a bit of cash and rent a cheap hotel. That's what young people do in asia. In Japan they have love hotels where you can rent rooms on an hourly basis and they are often themed to boot. The west is so farking conservative in many ways especially america.

    Or take her on a trip overnight to the beach. I mean you have to start shifting away from your parents and become independant eventually. Get a job on the side and buy a van like the 70's.

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    Default Re: Trouble finding a location to f-close a girl

    Nah, my parents aren't a big issue in terms of being too conservative or controlling. Our house is just so small that if anyone is around, it's not a good thing. I just can't go to her place because it's too far and her parents are an issue. Another reason why she can't be out late. She's expected to be back from school.


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