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Thread: escalating from party downstairs to upstairs bedroom

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    Default escalating from party downstairs to upstairs bedroom

    Hey all, i'll give you the down low on what and your thoughts are very welcome

    Pretty much this weekend is my bday party and i've lined up a nice woman who's pretty keen, anyway the only obstacle that i'm facing is for a "reason" of some sort to actually go into my room and let things go from there.

    I get the whole aspect of taking her into the room just so she gets the feel, and then making an excuse to go back out...but then how do i re-initiate a valid reason (of what?) to go back upstairs into my room?

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    Default Re: escalating from party downstairs to upstairs bedroom

    Dark, I just had the whole thing typed and then I lost service and it got deleted. Well here goes again. You have a few different options here, the first and most popular is bait. I don't typically use it because it unreliable and it is beginner stuff, but for example, when I was a beginner, I had a pet chinchilla, and I would always ask girls if they wanted to see it and they always did so there, your in, the trick is go haves something interesting enough to get them into your room, but not too interesting to where she wont let you make a move. Again very difficult to find the right thing, another way is to ask of she wants to go Somewhere quieter to talk, again not a good option, its a party, unless she really likes you she wont wanna go somewhere quieter, she came to party, not talk. One thing I like to do is to simply walk up to her, grab her hand and walk up to your room, its very alpha, and girls love being controlled like that, but if it were me, what I would do is seduce her, thats what we puas do, we practice the art of seduction, and there are a lot of threads on here to help you with that, so I wont get into it, but what I would do is challenge her to a game of beer pong after kinoing her for a while and whenshe agrees whisper in her ear "whoever wins gets to be on top" make sure you say on top though, being on top is a dominance thing, so you should compete with her for higher value. Hope this helps and let me know if you have any questions
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    Default Re: escalating from party downstairs to upstairs bedroom

    thanks Dalton, yeah it's only the relocating part i feel is the obstacle, in the past i've always been in the location for it or never really noticed how i got there because it happened naturally.

    To be honest i'm not a fan of using alcohol as a method (i prefer to be sober / do it properly without fake confidence ) but i'm seeing an exception to this, in past parties we've had competitions to skull skittle bombs as fast as possible, i'm thinking i can use that and maybe do a best of 3 rounds, but if she beats me haha thoughts?

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    Default Re: escalating from party downstairs to upstairs bedroom

    Ask for a rematch hahaha, and yeah no doubt, that transmition is hard for people, and I don't like using alcohol either but she's probably gonna drink anyways so if she is try that, and if she doesn't, do your thing.
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    Default Re: escalating from party downstairs to upstairs bedroom

    This is tough, but I think I can help you. Where are you physically with this girl? Have you kissed her? Hugged her? Built comfort? You see, if you KNOW she likes you, then while the drinking starts you need to escalate the comfort by things like, touching her on the small of the back when you come up behind her, or brushing her hair out of her face. Once the drinking is going full swing and the energy of the party is amped...go for your kiss. As far as actually getting her up there, don't rely on cheap tricks. Once you have the first few kiss, space them out and use this to build sexual Tension. Examples would be going in for a kiss but instead leaning her head to the side and kissing her neck, or pulling back just as you are about to connect and make her come in farther to you. Tease her, she is your plaything. If she commits to the bedroom with you, she is yours...

    But to put this into KISS - light Kino, heavier kino in more sensual areas, kiss + tease the shit out of her. Be patient and let it build. By the time you are ready for her you will just be able to say come on grab her hand and she will follow, then you are free to jump her bones .

    Let me know if I was unclear on anything, this post was a bit rambled i know

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    Default Re: escalating from party downstairs to upstairs bedroom

    thanks for the info guys, everyone elses opinion is welcome

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    Default Re: escalating from party downstairs to upstairs bedroom

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    One thing I like to do is to simply walk up to her, grab her hand and walk up to your room, its very alpha, and girls love being controlled like that,
    That is exactly what I would do. It's nice if you have already kissed her, but eitherway you just need to show absolute confidence. I also like the idea of showing her the room beforehand...like when she arrives at the party show her around the place including your room.

    Wait until you're having a great time with her at the party and then say 'come with me' and lead her off. Dalton is right, that is Alpha. Doing drinking games is tricking them into your room and shows you are too scared to ask up front. If she likes you and wants to sleep with you she will. It's as simple as that so observe her body language and attitude at the party. Make sure you clean your room, wash your sheets and have a few conversation inspiring artifacts displayed. Start making out with her fairly soon after you enter the room though.

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    Default Re: escalating from party downstairs to upstairs bedroom

    (i prefer to be sober / do it properly without fake confidence )

    Who's faking?

    What kind of girl is she? Is she shy and withdrawn? Hard to get? And what kind of guy are you? These are all significant factors to consider. Keep in mind some girls drink as an excuse to get sexual with guys (credit "AFC" Adam Lyons). One of my favorite things to do is leave when sh*t is right at the end of crazy. Have your fun, but right before things start winding down, bounce. Tell her, "Let's get out of here." If you feel like adding, "Don't get me wrong. I like parties and all, but they don't beat one on one time when you find someone worth spending it with."

    Alternatively, just whisper in her ear, "Let's go up to my room." then wink at her. If she says no, keep calm and carry on. She'll come around. Anytime you go direct there's the chance she won't comply, but it's only a sh*t test. Wait it out and she'll be ready in time. That's why I love direct. They say it's risky but only when you don't know how to handle when things go "badly."

    Something less direct would be an excuse. Some girls want excuses. They like the idea and theory behind them. You're an interesting guy. You have cool sh*t in your room. Mention it in coversation, then show it to her later. Piece of cake.
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    Default Re: escalating from party downstairs to upstairs bedroom

    Yeah Cody is right, kinda need to know about them both a little.more before you plan of all out
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    Default Re: escalating from party downstairs to upstairs bedroom

    yeah that's cool thanks for the info guys, the situations slightly changed, there's going to be an additional 3 friends but ones on rags...1's dtf and 1's innocent so i'm pretty sure i know which one i'm going for.

    anyhow i'll keep you guys posted on what happens (:

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