So I've been hanging out with this girl for a few months and she gets pretty depressed sometimes. She also has a kid which can make it difficult to escalate. For instance tonight I went over to her place and the place was a mess for one and she was having one of those depressed nights which are becoming more frequent.
So I could really use some advice on how to re-frame the situation into a happier, sexier tone. I also could use some advice on re-framing my self because before I meet up with her I'm pretty outgoing and talkitive but when I get in her atmosphere I worry too much about what to say and I'm constantly thinking about body language instead of letting these things flow naturally. All in all I need tips on how to convey a stronger (happier, sexier) frame and maintain it.
Thanks in advance fellas!