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    Default Girl coming to my place to study tomorrow.

    Thanks for the replies, but the original thread is here:

    http://www.puaforums.com/dating-advi...vice-asap.html

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    Default Re: So I have a "study" session tomorrow need advice asap

    Very classy and casual. Just like the old days. I think it's fine if you go about it that way. However, if you want to insure something happens then I would add an extra element to it.

    General teasing. I'm going to assume you are already doing this. My tip is to make sure you don't get stuck in a banter war. They are very difficult to get out of so that you can escalate. Remember you don't have to apologize for your desires. You are a man and that's ok.

    I would show her that you are a challenge. Not so much though. If she really is a 6 and her self-esteem is low to average then it is easy to overdo it. Just a couple of things to make you a challenge should suffice. Tell her:

    "I hope you don't think this is a date. I mean, you're cute, but I've only just met you."

    Seriously....tell her that. Verbatim. She will likely get defensive and say "What makes you think I would go on a date with you?" or something to that effect. She is just saving face. Trust me she will still feel the stab because YOU said it first before giving her a chance to. You then become.....a challenge. Let her believe she is slowly winning you over. Escalate on HER high points. Not yours.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: So I have a "study" session tomorrow need advice asap

    How soon after she arrives do you think I should say that? I'm thinking after I cook and we start dinner. I'm thinking the less time she has to contemplate that before the movie and Kino the better.

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    Default Re: So I have a "study" session tomorrow need advice asap

    I think you should do it sooner rather than later. It gives her time to ponder over your mixed signals and raise the Tension. Go back and forth. Tell you you like her, but aren't sure about her. Do not steer away from tension. Bathe in it, because it will drive her to you.
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