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    Default Getting the Girl in Bed Was the Easiest Thing I Could Do

    Finishing is my problem. I'm a horrible opener good middle guy and horrible closer. I'm more on subtlety rather than straightforward and to the point. But after reading The Game and I've changed my act a little I'm been more confident, cocky and funny, and a lot more outgoing. In the past I had a lot of girls sleep in my bed with me, more for sleeping...Friendzon ing it hardcore.

    The last chick I hooked up with I picked up from a restaurant that my parents frequent. She's no longer working there, I really hope it wasn't because of me lol. But this is my first hook up after reading Style's book. Friends and I went karyokeing at her work and got pretty drunk. I invited her to hang out with us after with some of my girl friends and guy friends. Got her number and she met up with us. We bonfired in my backyard and then hot tubbed. It was me, her, my girl friend, and 2 of my guy friends. They left both of us to be alone but I bitched out and said it's getting pretty late. So I got her to dry off in my room and asked if she wanted to hang out I don't have any chairs in my room and she was sitting on the floor. Asked her why she was sitting on the floor so I told her to sit on the bed. I was showing her some youtube videos then she showed me some. I asked her how long she wanted to stay out and she said not too much longer cause it was like 3 am. I asked if she just wanted to watch a movie and she obliged. I asked if she wanted something comfortable and she said no, but I told her I don't like jeans on my bed. At this point we smell like chlorine and I'm in my sweats under the covers. I told her to grab a pair of shorts out of my dresser and come underneath the covers if she was cold. We watched the movie and I wasn't even into it, just thinking what the hell I should do. Finally after about 45 minutes I turn to her and ask "Are you gonna make out with me or what?" It was just a sexual frustration lash out. She replies with "Why do you?" And I nod and say "of course" and she straddles me and we finally f-close. The next week we do it again but I stopped responding to her texts after that cause she looked better clothed...I guess beggars can't be choosers but I was almost disgusted. But she still likes my stuff on instagram so I don't think she hates me for not texting her anymore.


    I got this girl because I had the balls to flat out asked her if she wanted to hook up. But how do I make the move more subtle? I will keep on searching through the forums.

    Where in this story do you think I was in and should have made my move sooner? I have such a hard time picking up IOIs. Most of the girls love me because I'm innocent and safe, little do they know how deviant and farking scummy I am in the head lol. I think that's my advantage. All the girls I've dated have told me that they never knew I was into them. I guess me being more forward and aggressive has worked. But I don't want to be a pushy AFC anymore!

    THANKS DUDES!

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    Default Re: Getting the Girl in Bed Was the Easiest Thing I Could Do

    The first ioi that you talked about was getting her number. After that it was coming over, etc. Basically everything she did was an IOI. Bonfire, hot tub (can it be more sexual? haha), staying after everyone left, getting into bed with you. As soon as she agreed to stay after everyone left you could have gone for it and it would have worked. Next time in a situation like this, don't ask. Just do it. Subtle kiss closes are more for when you're at a bar/club. Once she's in bed with you, it's basically her telling you to fark her.
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    Default Re: Getting the Girl in Bed Was the Easiest Thing I Could Do

    haha thanks! I guess I forgot add that when I usually invite people out they get the impression as hangout with a group of friends. I don't give off a vibe that I'm into them. I did that with a previous girl I met at my work where I invited her to go to after hours at my work and needed to get her number. BUT I also asked for a regular's number and invited him and made like a huge group invite with all my coworkers. While they are watching what I was doing making me super anxious lol. I guess I just don't have the balls to ask for the number solely of hanging out 1 on 1. I need to get over this rejection fear soon or it will be the death of me...

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    Default Re: Getting the Girl in Bed Was the Easiest Thing I Could Do

    Even if it's to hangout as a group, it's an ioi. I'm assuming you didn't know her. Therefore her agreeing to come over means she was interested in seeing more of you (no pun intended ), even though there were other people there, which means you did things right.
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    Default Re: Getting the Girl in Bed Was the Easiest Thing I Could Do

    I'll keep that in mind from now on when I try the hot tub and bonfire night lol Thanks again!


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