Finishing is my problem. I'm a horrible opener good middle guy and horrible closer. I'm more on subtlety rather than straightforward and to the point. But after reading The Game and I've changed my act a little I'm been more confident, cocky and funny, and a lot more outgoing. In the past I had a lot of girls sleep in my bed with me, more for sleeping...Friendzon ing it hardcore.
The last chick I hooked up with I picked up from a restaurant that my parents frequent. She's no longer working there, I really hope it wasn't because of me lol. But this is my first hook up after reading Style's book. Friends and I went karyokeing at her work and got pretty drunk. I invited her to hang out with us after with some of my girl friends and guy friends. Got her number and she met up with us. We bonfired in my backyard and then hot tubbed. It was me, her, my girl friend, and 2 of my guy friends. They left both of us to be alone but I bitched out and said it's getting pretty late. So I got her to dry off in my room and asked if she wanted to hang out I don't have any chairs in my room and she was sitting on the floor. Asked her why she was sitting on the floor so I told her to sit on the bed. I was showing her some youtube videos then she showed me some. I asked her how long she wanted to stay out and she said not too much longer cause it was like 3 am. I asked if she just wanted to watch a movie and she obliged. I asked if she wanted something comfortable and she said no, but I told her I don't like jeans on my bed. At this point we smell like chlorine and I'm in my sweats under the covers. I told her to grab a pair of shorts out of my dresser and come underneath the covers if she was cold. We watched the movie and I wasn't even into it, just thinking what the hell I should do. Finally after about 45 minutes I turn to her and ask "Are you gonna make out with me or what?" It was just a sexual frustration lash out. She replies with "Why do you?" And I nod and say "of course" and she straddles me and we finally f-close. The next week we do it again but I stopped responding to her texts after that cause she looked better clothed...I guess beggars can't be choosers but I was almost disgusted. But she still likes my stuff on instagram so I don't think she hates me for not texting her anymore.
I got this girl because I had the balls to flat out asked her if she wanted to hook up. But how do I make the move more subtle? I will keep on searching through the forums.
Where in this story do you think I was in and should have made my move sooner? I have such a hard time picking up IOIs. Most of the girls love me because I'm innocent and safe, little do they know how deviant and farking scummy I am in the head lol. I think that's my advantage. All the girls I've dated have told me that they never knew I was into them. I guess me being more forward and aggressive has worked. But I don't want to be a pushy AFC anymore!