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Thread: I talk to a lot of people, but I lack Social Proof

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    Default I talk to a lot of people, but I lack Social Proof

    I realized something today. I talk to a lot of people but today I noticed that something critical was missing from my game. I can't seem to make enough hot girl- friends that can surround me to establish social proof. We all know that the majority of women are followers of other women... quick to jump on the band wagon of other hot girls.

    Any comments, insights or ways to meet hot girls to make them your friends because I'm great at approaching but I can tell that this is a major sticking point for me as if all the women that I talk to are waiting to see something like this in my life. Being that this is my first semester back in school I don't have as many friends as I used to. Any ideas. Help me, oh wise ones.

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    Default Re: Social Proof

    Easy. You just friendzone some hot ones right from the start. They'll be cool with it because they're used to guys hitting on them, so it'll be a nice relief. Then you hang out with them and let other girls see, which causes you to get hot girls, then the original hot girls that you friendzoned want you now that you've become high value even though they don't know they were the ones who gave you value in the first place. Then you just have a ton of hot girls wanting to have sex with you. It's a circle.
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    Cody is correct when it comes to friend zoning girls, but it doesnt have to be hot ones, young ones, i friended a blonde 48 yr old women, we joked, i was being cheeky, we danced, and when we danced i was surrounded by women trying to take. Even the 48 year old said all these girls want you, i just displayed that i was having fun and made sure 48 yr old was having fun too so the other girls would see, I f-closed in the disabled toilets that night
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Social Proof

    Guys, he knows that he's asking how to make them his friends well honestly neg them a bit to get their attention then dhv a little then friendzone them.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    He's asking how to make them his friends.

    You..just.....do? Lol, I don't know. How does anyone make friends? I just tell people, "You're cool. I like you, and I like a ridiculously few amount of people so we're going to be friends." And then we hang out, and then we're friends. Dudes, chicks, animals. It's a universal approach.
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    Yeah, Thanks fellas. I do want to know how so that they sort of follow me around or hang out with me regardless of class or whatever. I'd like some scenarios or examples of how yall got them to follow you around or did you ever have the "

    I just want to be friends talk with them". Again I'd appreciate any suggestions because I'm good with guys but I've seemed to forgotten how to make friends with women, like when I was first in college.

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    Default Re: Social Proof

    Women who are your friend won't be following you around all the time. Think of your bros. When you're in a small group of them and you walk off as the only one, will they follow you? No, because they're hanging out with each other too. Same with women who are your friends. Women are far more likely to follow you around when they're either attracted to you or your the only person they know in the place. Even then they'll often linger because they expect you to do the work so you'd have to guide them along with you to show social proof all around the place. I think it's easier to just have girls as your friends. Girls will see you're laughing and having fun with her. They scout for that, you don't need to parade them around the place.

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    Skip attraction and go straight into rapport. Talk to them like they're your sisters. Make them laugh, but don't Kino. Genuinely care about them and look out for them like an older brother.
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    Default Re: I talk to a lot of people, but I lack Social Proof

    For social proof, I believe it is easier to make this than to fake this. As someone mentioned earlier, think of how you are with your mates. How does the group behave?

    To create some social proof, befriend some hot chicks, and then go to the same places (clubs/cafè wherever) and you have your social proof right there. If people see you entering with some hot chicks, and talk/dance with them now and then, then there is your social proof.

    When it comes to befriending girls, I believe it all comes down to caring, and listening.

    If you are able to actually care about what they tell you, and listen to what they say, you will be able to befriend any girl. As mentioned, turn of your Kino, and take negging down a notch. Know however that this will most likely land you deep in the FriendZone, so don't expect these girls to become your lovers.

    ps. If you are out with some female friends, getting one of them to wingwoman for you should be no problem. Social proof on steroids

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