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Thread: Help: Girl Has Bf..Trying to Escalate

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    Default Re: Help: Girl Has Bf..Trying to Escalate

    If she's a thrill seeker, have sex with her in public or something. Something to get the adrenaline pumping. Doing it in a car for the first time would be awkward. If you can kiss her and she's begging for it. Suggest a hotel. lol Give some spice into her sex life. What would the girl be more excited to tell her friends about, sex in a car or sex on a swing. haha

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    Default Re: Help: Girl Has Bf..Trying to Escalate

    If she's a thrill seeker, have sex with her in public or something. Something to get the adrenaline pumping. Doing it in a car for the first time would be awkward. If you can kiss her and she's begging for it. Suggest a hotel. lol Give some spice into her sex life. What would the girl be more excited to tell her friends about, sex in a car or sex on a swing. haha
    There is a certain park that I have in mind now that you mention it, secluded at night..no interruptions... but always that feeling of getting caught makes some girls go "nuts" ...

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    Default Re: Help: Girl Has Bf..Trying to Escalate

    Okay, a little update...

    Today was the day I wanted to reschedule plans with her. Okay, so after class she comes up to me instead (perfect) and we talk a little about our lecture. I saw that she is heading to the same place to get a bite to eat and stop her before she buys food (lol no she isn't fat class gets out right before lunch ) I mention how we made plans and how it wont work out and gotta reschedule lol....I told her instead thrusday I'll pick her up Friday..she says she works friday..then I say monday..Monday is good for her and she quickly ask what we will be doing. Told her straight up I'll pick her up at 8:26pm and we will go have coffee. She ask where..told her where..and she says her bf works by there...ask her where exactly does he work..she tells me where..I then say along the lines that it wouldnt be a problem. I mean of course looking back on it I couldve said so many better things to say..idk..anyways we just get into this long train discussion Im trying to get her relaxed and say it all be fine.
    Right, well she then goes on saying the reason she doesnt want to go is because if he sees us then she's afraid he will dump her..and then she wont have anybody else. Clearly she was thinking me as bf material...cause she obviously was looking for me to say "Well im here if he leaves you" lol But I didnt cause I don't want her as a gf lol..then I talk about something trying to build comfort before I mention getting coffee again... She then ask if she wants to go sit down and eat and talk. I decline saying I got things to do.
    Soo we Fluff talk and then I bring back up coffee, and tell her Im gunna pick her up and we we'll go, then she's like "what no I cant do that...I was thinking about it but now you talked me out of it" Yeah, then I told her "what you dont like hanging out with people?" Shes like well I do but I cant be going on dates..I say, it isnt a date, be just friends it'll be fun. No its to risky she says. At this point im done talking to her so I say alright well I got to meet up with a friend talk to ya later, she gives me a hug and a smile and we depart.

    Looking back, I say I couldve done so much better. For some reason I was just thinking about things to hard it kinda ruined it...didnt feel as natural as I would've hoped. She is still very interested in me though as I left on a high note and acted like she was missing out. I just need to build comfort. How do I go about building comfort? I wont talk to her until I see her in class again next week and that will give me another chance. Next week is my final chance, if she declines again then I'm moving on


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