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    Default Help: Girl Has Bf..Trying to Escalate

    So, new to the PUA community.. did some research and practicing..but I've stumbled upon a new situation: Meeting a HB 8.7 that has a Bf...and I think it wont stop me...

    See, I met this girl in class..and managed to talk to her. First time I met we numbered closed and I waited the next day to text her. I initiate text and use sexual innuendos She then tells me she has a bf, however I instantly knew that he isn't satisfying her "needs" the way she reacted to my messages

    Few days go by and she initiates the text... I kept it short and reframed it in my control and told her to come to this coffee place at blahblah time. She said its a small world and she doesn't want people to see her with me thinking we are dating lol I told her we will just be going as friends..she politely declined and I closed.

    Next week rolls by see her in class make some eye contact..she makes eye contact back. She knows ima be talking to her after lol.
    Class ends I go up and talk to her and we walk to a nearby snack place and we both buy food separate, we talk for a little...brought up her Bf then I ask what hes doin, she replies probably something useless to society..lol.. and goes on how he doesn't have a job right now..blahblah.....al most too easy (she knows I make monies on the interwebz) but of course I back her bf up and say he is probably constructing a technical business plan that will make him millions..or something like that I then go on using BF destroyer techniques..asking if he makes her happy and all that. and it made a impact on her, she felt open on talking while we were finishing up eating (did I mention Kino,negging,patteri ng all while doing this?).. then started talking about sex. Apparently she recently wrote a research paper on sex Well I had to end it there because I had to meet this other girl. But I made an AFC mistake and told her we really needed to hang out soon (afc I think because I didnt tell her when or where) she said ok and gave her a good first hug and left.

    So another week goes by see her in class and make eye contact again..she was wearing these sexy black glasses and the first time I looked at her she looked at me like she was horny as hell kinda biting her lip kinda deal. So I go talk to her again after class.
    We walk around talking for a few minutes got her in a good mood feeling great, giving "good" negs, push/pulls,innuendos, all that. Had to leave and told her I should come over (I'm college in still live with parents) to read her sex research discoveries ( shortly after found out she lives with parents as well but hers are more relaxed and like to enjoy life lol...they like to smoke and drink but are very protective on who she hangs out with she's younger than me) . I tell her Thursday will be good and she agrees..BUT now that I look at it Thursday is TurkeyDay! No way I want to hang with her on Turkeyday. I guess she was so memorized that she didnt realize it either haha.

    Anyways I have class with her again in a couple days, I plan on talking to her about our plans and how they have to change to the next day after.. which will be Friday. However, I'm really unsure what to do at this point. When I meet her at her house Ill be introduced to her parents..she insist I meet them. Im thinking if I do and everything goes great, then next time we hang out and all goes well I'll drive her somewhere private and we can fclose..she knows she wants to..
    But Im not sure if I should do both in the same night... Im thinking why not?

    From a more experienced view, would it be better:

    A) to meet these parents first and save the sexual tension for the next hang out?
    B) Meet the parents and seduce her while im there and possibly bring her back to my car to fclose somewhere
    C) Not even meet these parents and just convince her to hang out (which will be hard) and ill pick her up...even if its for "5 minutes"
    D) Other
    Last edited by KristiBell; 11-20-2012 at 08:15 AM.

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    Default Re: Help: Girl Has Bf..Trying to Escalate

    This is one of the oddest situations I've seen...

    You're "new" to the PUA community, but you sound pretty informed about the terminology.

    You say that she has a boyfriend, but she wants you to come meet her parents (who smoke & drink)?

    And the fact that she's much younger ...

    Dude, seriously...
    Last edited by KristiBell; 11-20-2012 at 08:15 AM.


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    Default Re: Help: Girl Has Bf..Trying to Escalate

    Yeah I'm new to it..Ive read a lot just haven't tested much, but so far its been good...
    I see your point though..the repercussions... maybe even legal haha ahh man. Maybe Ill just let her go, and if I see her at a party....well then it was the "alcohol" that made me do it. I have this other brunette that I just met last night, she alright not as good looking as the other but shes short and nice size, an 8..but her personality is there..and shes 20..single ready to mingle

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    Default Re: Help: Girl Has Bf..Trying to Escalate

    Keep that classmate in your pocket, at least till she turns 18 man. Chances are she might be single by then to express her freedom. She has protective parents and if they ever find out if you hooked up with her you're screwed. Don't ignore her but just play it cool. Just keep building sexual Tension up until her birthday and you'll most likely easily pull it. She won't be able to resist anymore because her boyfriend sucks.

    IMO I wouldn't meet the parents. That sounds like she would want to start dating you...which she still has a boyfriend. You don't want a girl that's tiptoeing around her boyfriend anyways.

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    Default Re: Help: Girl Has Bf..Trying to Escalate

    Your frame of mind is phenomenal. You interpret everything she does as wanting you, which is great, but I think you may be getting ahead of yourself.

    Doesn't seem like anything concrete has happened between you two yet and she has been showing some resistance. Plus she is introducing you to her parents as who? ....Not her bf that's for sure. Most likely as a friend.

    Whether you should go or not, I'm not sure. All I'll say is, you live once. So try not to do too many stupid things along the way lol. Good luck. And don't get your ass kicked.
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    Default Re: Help: Girl Has Bf..Trying to Escalate

    You are trying to turbo charge yourself through life, and burning your bridges along the way. If you fclose this girl before her 18th birthday her parents may cool your jets and have you in lockdown. You seem to be a fast learner especially how you use the pua terminology and techniques but the race doesn't always go to the swiftest. Slow and make sure you use the pua techniques right as well as learning from your mistakes. Pua and being an alpha male is not about taking advantage of people, hurting them and how many girls you can amass and fclose in a single week but about being comfortable in any situation, leadership, independence and letting people see the real you. Jerks use trickery, sh1t on, and hurt people to get what they want, and if you want to make it as a master pua then you have to avoid those undesirable traits.

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    Default Re: Help: Girl Has Bf..Trying to Escalate

    Thanks for your replies, flyer1, FILTHY, and BatMan

    But Guise..I made a mistake...she turned 18 last month! I forgot lol I woke up this morning and was like wait shit, she told me she bought a pack of cigarettes for her parents..she must be 18!..

    Most of you are saying not to meet the parents. And I agree completely, that seems like a Bf/Gf thing to do...but then the only way to fclose would be in a car..kinda bad at making moves in the car..maybe look up some techniques or something but once it gets started it's on. Also I'm not trying to be a jerk, hurt her on purpose or anything of that nature. Her sex life sucks, and I'm there to make it better.
    Now that I know she is 18 I want to go all the way with this..but not meet the parents. She does show some resistance but I think she is afraid of what society thinks..in the back of her mind she wants it. I just need to a good place and reason for her to meetup. Ill maybe ask her for coffee again, I just dont know of any other places to take her with a relaxed atmosphere like coffee brings lol

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    Default Re: Help: Girl Has Bf..Trying to Escalate

    Just take it easy man. You are coming off as being extremely desperate in this forum, I can only imagine The Vibe you give her in real life. This is not to offend you, it is just something for you to watch out for. Maybe you haven't built enough comfort with her that's why she insists on hanging out with you when her parents are around. I think you should not get desperate and continue with the Push Pull approach and flirting. neg her and tell her you usually go for more mature women who will actually go out for a coffee/food with you. Tell her you think she's cute but TOO young for you, then she will start qualifying herself. Bottom line, I think you shouldn't meet the parents and you shouldn't suggest a "quick f-close at a car". Make her work for it a little, it will go easier for you. So step back and work your game.

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    Default Re: Help: Girl Has Bf..Trying to Escalate

    "Just take it easy man. You are coming off as being extremely desperate in this forum, I can only imagine The Vibe you give her in real life. This is not to offend you, it is just something for you to watch out for. Maybe you haven't built enough comfort with her that's why she insists on hanging out with you when her parents are around. I think you should not get desperate and continue with the Push Pull approach and flirting. neg her and tell her you usually go for more mature women who will actually go out for a coffee/food with you. Tell her you think she's cute but TOO young for you, then she will start qualifying herself. Bottom line, I think you shouldn't meet the parents and you shouldn't suggest a "quick f-close at a car". Make her work for it a little, it will go easier for you. So step back and work your game."

    Thanks, exact reply I needed. I will do exactly that. And Gotta build up on that comfort.

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    Default Re: Help: Girl Has Bf..Trying to Escalate

    Quote Originally Posted by hoboman233 View Post
    "Just take it easy man. You are coming off as being extremely desperate in this forum, I can only imagine The Vibe you give her in real life. This is not to offend you, it is just something for you to watch out for. Maybe you haven't built enough comfort with her that's why she insists on hanging out with you when her parents are around. I think you should not get desperate and continue with the Push Pull approach and flirting. neg her and tell her you usually go for more mature women who will actually go out for a coffee/food with you. Tell her you think she's cute but TOO young for you, then she will start qualifying herself. Bottom line, I think you shouldn't meet the parents and you shouldn't suggest a "quick f-close at a car". Make her work for it a little, it will go easier for you. So step back and work your game."

    Thanks, exact reply I needed. I will do exactly that. And Gotta build up on that comfort.
    Good luck man. Let us know how it goes.


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