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    agathy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Couldn't f close and girl is now in control

    I'm still kind of new at this thing, so my overall game is not tight. I met and kissed this girl on the first night and got her number. I saw her a few days later at a cafe. We had lots of physical contact. At the end of the date, she sh1t tested me by saying "are you going to kiss me?" in a really "seriously don[t do that sort of way. I then kissed her. We got on texting throughout the week and she seemed very interested, initiating a lot of contact while I was always the one ending the conversations.

    This friday, I was out with my friends and she calls me three times and texts me. I don't notice her calls until 40 minutes later. Turns out we're in the same neighborhood and I go meet her at the bar with her friend (a girl). I'm kissing and groping and playing physical games with this girl all night while her friend is just sitting there. We change venues to a restaurant where we eat, drink, and continue the physical stuff. Her friend even takes pictures of us. At nine in the morning, they walk me to the subway, I get her to kiss a little more passionately and she leaves with her friend and tells me to contact her tomorrow. I text "wake up!" in the afternoon and she texts me "I woke up!" at 11:30 at night. I ignore it and text her some stuff the next morning. Now she's obviously ignoring me.

    Two questions, 1.how in the world do I get rid of her annoying ass friend who is awkwardly watching us the whole time? The friend liked me, she just didn't give us an opportunity to be alone.

    2. How do I continue to pursue this now that the sense of urgency that she had for me seems to have disappeared for now?

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    sosa is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Couldn't f close and girl is now in control

    find a friend for your sweetie's friend.

    that sense of urgency is going to dissapear now that a few days has already passed. its natural. lucky for you if you don't screw it up your at the time now where you'll are moving into a new phase of the relationship. this is where things will go good or bad. you'll need to demonstrate a lot of value that will keep her interested. this is the time to establish that emotional bond.

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    agathy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Couldn't f close and girl is now in control

    Thanks. It actually just seems like she's gaming me now. This is good.

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    Spoonman is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Couldn't f close and girl is now in control

    Right on dude! Your game style seems like alot of fun, and similir to mine in ways.
    What I do is Disarm the obstacles which the other girl is obviously not an obstacle persay, but a potential 3some target ;D And [COLOR="rgb(0, 255, 255)"]Isolate the Target[/COLOR]Simply by asking her a private question or something

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    Default Re: Couldn't f close and girl is now in control

    First off... be careful in the future about kissing her when she brings it up. It doesnt seem like it affected her openess but next time tease her before you do. Never give a woman exactly what she wants.

    Also in line with that is not getting clingy. You were out with friends and u left them to be with her? Clingy. You are important. No woman should ever be so important that you drop what your doing for her. Again, doesnt seem to hurt your game but dont make it a habit.

    1. Have fun with the friend. Dont look at her as in the way. Game her too. If you want to be alone with target, ask her out to a neutral place in the daytime. It will give you a chance to build comfort of her being alone with u.

    2. Refer to opening paragraphs. Give her space, text her once in awhile. Meet other girls! Stay busy with that. Then you can re-initiate with this girl. Don't seem so eager. Use the neutral date idea. When you are alone, ramp up the touching slowly
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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