I just recently read "the Tao Of Badass" and started reading the threads in this forum (mainly the newbie thread and everything that stems from it)
making it short, i met a girl that i knew online, she was ok, and we had lots of interests in common so we went out
we met, talked while walking for a while, then we sat on the park and talked a lot more. (this could be in the hours range, maybe 2 or 3) we clicked on most of the subjects BUT i was struggling to make body contact, she sat a little far from me and thou she was open to it, she wanst giving me any signs of attraction.
very later on she said that she had a sore neck i gave her a massage and got a short kclose before she had to go home, but nevertheless i feel like the date went horribly. Everything took too long to happen and felt too friendly and not alpha at all.
no problem since i dont like the girl that much, but i noticed i seem to have a pattern with this attitude, which, unbelievably, got me a lot of closers but its not what i have in mind for myself (and i dont think this could work with the elite women)
any advice? maybe a book i should start by reading? i felt really comfortable with the Tao of Badass, its simple, to the point.
im really comfortable with my appeareance and personality traits, but i feel like im too soft, slow and not agressive in my approach.