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Thread: Comfort to Seduction Help please

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    Cool Comfort to Seduction Help please

    throughout my reading this, and bettering my game... i've perfected my text game, as well as not making it awkward and i'm perfectly fine with comfort.


    The last girl i was trying to get with... she had a boyfriend of a year and i texted her for 2 weeks, and used the Bf destroyer technique and she got single, i met her for coffee soon after and then when she was single she came to my place and we saw a movie. We played some games, with dares as prizes anyways i had a kiss as my prize, and i had to sing her a song, and a massage to give her.. things were looking very good, she even sent me lingerie photos on my phone. Things went downhill from there. We saw a movie i gave her a massage and we were cuddling, then she gave me a massage, and i sang and we made out a bit. but thats all it got to.. then she lost interest.


    The thing im trying to say is im having real difficulties to go from comfort and text game, to getting it to the bedroom when you guys hang out and when theres cuddling and touching and kissing involved.


    Thanks Guys

    FtT

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    Default Re: Comfort to Seduction Help please

    and i sang and we made out a bit. but thats all it got to.. then she lost interest.
    i've been guilty of thinking that but eventually you get to the point where it's your turn to make things happen, keep advancing until she says no, then respect that

    it takes confidence and a few shutdowns but eventually you'll get the Mindset of well she hasn't said no :-)

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    Default Re: Comfort to Seduction Help please

    it seems i've lost the Edit button?

    here's some added info that may be of use, i had the same issue escalating to the bedroom, but ultimately you just have to man up and take charge (alpha trait)

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...s-bedroom.html

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    Default Re: Comfort to Seduction Help please

    okay, so update,


    due to this she lost interest and i told her i was interested, i haven't seen her since that night, but ive still been texting, the way that i told her i was interested was very casual, and now she knows, which is not necessarily a good thing. I was going to use the Get out of the friend zone method by ignoring her for a while, but i didn't do that, instead ive still been flirting with her. At first she had no interest at all but eventually i'm at that point where we talk daily again and i always keep it interesting... we even got to flirting like we used to before, and she is still interested, through text i often follow GunsnGlory's method and keep her hooked. and now she just knows that im only looking for a fuck buddy essentially.



    Now, she has been sending me some Sh1t tests lately and ive been defusing them as best as i can.


    I was just wondering where do i go from here, because i cant really play it cool because she will lose interest, i ignore her and respond late usually and when we talk its good. Its still not at that point where it was before where she would start conversations. I would like to arrange a date, but we both have exams at the moment so after Xmas break it will be, and i will probs end up getting her to invite me to a party (She gets drunk and really Touchy/Feel) again im not looking for a gf just a fuck buddy. Where do i go from here? examples would be nice too...


    Thanks guys

    FtT

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    Default Re: Comfort to Seduction Help please

    A lot of times if you get close to closing a girl (like making out and cuddling and such) then it becomes really hard to close her late since she knows the only logical next step to to fark, and has thus lost plausable deniability.

    I know that doesn't really help you with this chick, but for future gaming.
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