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Thread: I want to get laid on demand.

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    Default I want to get laid on demand.

    Hello. A brief description of myself:
    • 5'7"
    • Average build
    • Latino
    • Long, dark brown hair
    • Fluent in English and Spanish, conversational in Italian
    • Student at a university
    • Active academic, social, and extracurricular life
    My objective is simple: find an attractive female at a bar (or party, but most of this will be more applicable to the former), and seduce her in order to have a One Night Stand. It is my belief that assisting men in this process is the purpose of this forum so I hope that I am posting in the correct place.


    For those of who you have had success in such an endeavor, I believe that if you could answer the following questions for me I can increase the probability of realizing this desire of mine:

    1) How do I approach a female who is a complete stranger at a bar, considering that most of them are in a defensive Mindset because of the exorbitant quantity of men attempting to seduce them, and initiate a conversation?

    2) How do I get a girl to dance with me? I enjoy dancing thoroughly, whether by myself or with a group of friends (both male and female), but I almost never grind with a girl. What do I say upon approaching her in order to insinuate that I am interested in dancing with her in this fashion? Or am I obligated to simply begin humping them if we make eye contact?

    3) At what point do I make it clear that my intentions are sexual in nature? Do I articulate my desires verbally, or is non-verbal language adequate enough when manifesting them? In my experience, this has been the most difficult obstacle to surmount.

    4) How do I compete with other males who are more skilled, experienced, and better equipped for this situation? There are exists an abundance of men that are taller, stronger, better looking, more charismatic, less anxious, and overall more confident in their ability to seduce women than I am. What techniques and strategies can I use in order to compensate for my deficiencies?

    5) Finally, and most important of all, is there a way for me to seduce women that is not inconsistent with my morality? My greatest concern is that because this behavior is fundamentally avaricious in nature, there is great risk of exploitation. There is nothing I fear more than causing harm to another, especially when dealing with an issue as delicate as sex. It is common knowledge that women in our society are objectified, consequently formulating their own sense of self worth primarily based upon how pleasing they are to the desires of men. My desire is that I seduce women without being deceptive, manipulative, or ingenuine. Adherence to my moral code is of a greater priority than satisfying my incessant sexual urges; therefore, if there is no way in which I can both treat women respectfully and have one night stands with them, then this entire post is for nought.

    Thank you for your input. I really do appreciate it..

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    Default Re: I want to get laid on demand.

    There's probably a lot of new terms in this post ^ so here's a list of things to read up on (search around the forums and also on youtube)

    dhv
    dlv
    Neg
    Night Game
    Indirect Game
    AMOG
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    Default Re: I want to get laid on demand.

    Somehow I messed up the 'quote' feature. That first post of mine ^ was supposed to go at the end of this feedback

    Quote Originally Posted by byahdave View Post
    Hello. A brief description of myself:
    • 5'7"
    • Average build
    • Latino
    • Long, dark brown hair
    • Fluent in English and Spanish, conversational in Italian
    • Student at a university
    • Active academic, social, and extracurricular life
    My objective is simple: find an attractive female at a bar (or party, but most of this will be more applicable to the former), and seduce her in order to have a one night stand. It is my belief that assisting men in this process is the purpose of this forum so I hope that I am posting in the correct place.

    Yup. Here is that place. Also read a book called "The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed" - it's the best guide to starting out - especially for party/club/bar game.


    For those of who you have had success in such an endeavor, I believe that if you could answer the following questions for me I can increase the probability of realizing this desire of mine:

    Let's do this.


    1) How do I approach a female who is a complete stranger at a bar, considering that most of them are in a defensive mindset because of the exorbitant quantity of men attempting to seduce them, and initiate a conversation?

    Indirectly - that is approach without conveying interest in the target. Check out the thread on 'Openers'


    2) How do I get a girl to dance with me? I enjoy dancing thoroughly, whether by myself or with a group of friends (both male and female), but I almost never grind with a girl. What do I say upon approaching her in order to insinuate that I am interested in dancing with her in this fashion? Or am I obligated to simply begin humping them if we make eye contact?

    Someone else is gonna have to take this one - my dance game is nada.


    3) At what point do I make it clear that my intentions are sexual in nature? Do I articulate my desires verbally, or is non-verbal language adequate enough when manifesting them? In my experience, this has been the most difficult obstacle to surmount.

    Do so when you get her in Isolation (either just before or just after). In "C1" in the M3 Model (see Mystery Method).


    4) How do I compete with other males who are more skilled, experienced, and better equipped for this situation? There are exists an abundance of men that are taller, stronger, better looking, more charismatic, less anxious, and overall more confident in their ability to seduce women than I am. What techniques and strategies can I use in order to compensate for my deficiencies?

    Dominate them, undermine them (in a way that conveys disinterest in her for being associated with them), or befriend them; but most importantly - don't be affected! Never sulk. Keep a high-value Alpha male frame.


    5) Finally, and most important of all, is there a way for me to seduce women that is not inconsistent with my morality? My greatest concern is that because this behavior is fundamentally avaricious in nature, there is great risk of exploitation. There is nothing I fear more than causing harm to another, especially when dealing with an issue as delicate as sex. It is common knowledge that women in our society are objectified, consequently formulating their own sense of self worth primarily based upon how pleasing they are to the desires of men. My desire is that I seduce women without being deceptive, manipulative, or ingenuine. Adherence to my moral code is of a greater priority than satisfying my incessant sexual urges; therefore, if there is no way in which I can both treat women respectfully and have one night stands with them, then this entire post is for nought.

    First of all, as you know, if a girl says 'no' or 'stop' or 'I don't want this' - then it's game over (cred to Cody ). That being said, sometimes a girl goes out for the night just looking for some d1k - you can be that d1k! During a hook-up women like to be lead. You can lead her through the interaction without being manipulative. You can alter the way you present yourself without deception. You can flirt (even using fictional and ridiculous humorous anecdotes) without anyone ever considering it to be lying.


    Thank you for your input. I really do appreciate it..
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    Never lie, cheat or manipulate.
    Always leave her better than you found her. (better for the experience, etc)

    (cred to Red Baron for having this ^ as his tagline ((until recently??)) )
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    Default Re: I want to get laid on demand.

    I think Autismus covered most of what you'll need so I'll take care of the dancing part. There are a few ways to get a woman to dance.

    1. Go up to her (preferably if she is standing up) and hold up your palm to her. 95% of the time they think you want a high five. Once she gives you the high five, shake your head no, and ask for her other hand (you need the opposite hand that she high fived you with. Most women high five in a mirrored fashion), then grasp onto her hand and spin her once. After she makes a full circle look at her expression. If she seems not interested, then give a face that says " Eh, that was ok. " Then walk away. If it's a good.expression..... well.....you already know that part lol. The idea is that it's easy for people to commit to something small than something large. So because she doesn't know it's coming she's likely to do each incremental part until you spin her. This works for me 80% of the time.

    2. The more solid way is to already be dancing, having fun, and interacting with everyone (social proof) Then they could come up to you. I've also (just a few times) walked by a woman while sipping my drink and holding up one finger as if to tell her to wait, put down my drink then go up to her. Something about that does something and I haven't been turned down yet. Like I'm already telling her what to do and she likes it.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: I want to get laid on demand.

    Iv used both the ideas batman put down there and they both work really well, the spin one is my favourite also on the dance floor if you get some good eye contact with a girl, just beckon her towards you, she'll come Over and dance quite often.
    Another way which is really good fun if your ballsy enough and either dance really badly (me) or if your really good it would work to. Is to go up to her and sorta dust yourself off and start a dance off....not sure how to explain this move exactly :L but just make it obv it's a challenge and most women will mess around and have a dance off, so be a muppet for a bit then pull her in to dance proper. I normally use this if I'm having a really good night cus I get really hyper lol :L

    Linking x

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    Default Re: I want to get laid on demand.

    I think everyone gave great advice but i had one thing to add... dont be focused on one night stands at first.

    I known this is what u want but if u focus on that too much, u may not see great opportunities to get numbers and see them later for some fun. Also, goals (knowing what u want) are good to have but don't put too much pressure on yourself. Because if u do, and u don't get the results u want, u may get very mad at yourself and discouraged.

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    Default Re: I want to get laid on demand.

    I really appreciate all the advice gentlemen, this is fantastic information! I will definitely try the "fake high five" approach on the dance floor as well as read up on some of the literature available on this site.

    To clarify, I have a lot of female friends and am a pretty well known guy around campus; its just that I'm too friendly with the opposite sex and never make matters explicitly sexual even if I do muster up the courage to approach a stranger.

    Grazie a tutti! Ho imparato molte cose che io potro provare questo weekend.


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