Hey guys, after coming from multiple long term relationships I was recently new in the PickUp field, and decided to get my life handled when it comes to women.
I gotta say, to my own surprise, I had more success than expected and now have several dates with various girls.
Very much looking forward to it, and I feel confident and relaxed, but now I'm wondering: how do I turn things from having a 'connection' (I'm pretty sure the attraction is there) to getting physical with them? That is, without falling for the "steady relationship" trap.
I'm not necessarily avoiding a relationship at all cost, but I rather don't wanna settle down in another relation right away. I just want to mess around for a while. And of course I don't intend to lie about this, I don't wanna give anyone false impressions and it's also completely fine with me if they mess around as well (or don't proceed with me because they have different goals).
So my question is: I can have a nice conversation with any girl, make some fun, have some connection, but how do I smoothly transition to physical intimacy, i.e. bringing them home or go with them and have a great time together.
Just to make it clear: not being shallow here and *only* interested in sex. I'm more into having a nice personal click with someone, enjoy eachother, and have a bond which includes having sex.
Any advice? Any things I should say or do? Patterns I need to keep in mind?
Thanks in advance, much appreciated!