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Thread: Newbie having more success than expected, how to turn physical? (i.e. sex)

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    Default Newbie having more success than expected, how to turn physical? (i.e. sex)

    Hey guys, after coming from multiple long term relationships I was recently new in the PickUp field, and decided to get my life handled when it comes to women.

    I gotta say, to my own surprise, I had more success than expected and now have several dates with various girls.

    Very much looking forward to it, and I feel confident and relaxed, but now I'm wondering: how do I turn things from having a 'connection' (I'm pretty sure the attraction is there) to getting physical with them? That is, without falling for the "steady relationship" trap.

    I'm not necessarily avoiding a relationship at all cost, but I rather don't wanna settle down in another relation right away. I just want to mess around for a while. And of course I don't intend to lie about this, I don't wanna give anyone false impressions and it's also completely fine with me if they mess around as well (or don't proceed with me because they have different goals).

    So my question is: I can have a nice conversation with any girl, make some fun, have some connection, but how do I smoothly transition to physical intimacy, i.e. bringing them home or go with them and have a great time together.

    Just to make it clear: not being shallow here and *only* interested in sex. I'm more into having a nice personal click with someone, enjoy eachother, and have a bond which includes having sex.

    Any advice? Any things I should say or do? Patterns I need to keep in mind?

    Thanks in advance, much appreciated!

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    Default Re: Newbie having more success than expected, how to turn physical? (i.e. s

    The key to this is lots and lots of Kino throughout the date. Also, if you can get a girl talking about sex it normally turns out pretty well but search kino on here there's some good guides

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Newbie having more success than expected, how to turn physical? (i.e. s

    Yeah I can see how getting her talk about sex is a good thing

    Do you have any advice on how to bring up the subject (or better yet, let her bring it up or go on about it) without coming across too focused on it? See, I don't know if it's a cultural thing, but here in Europe I noticed that girls often close up or get distant about it.

    I always try to be totally cool and indifferent about it, as in, making sure to stick in *my* frame, where sex is a completely fine normal, healthy thing, but I'm not desperately trying to get any (or better yet I just KNOW it's gonna happen and that's just OK). Instead of getting sucked into *their* frame, where there are always barriers and obstacles for sex.

    But I noticed on several occasions, when I try to bring up the subject, either in a funny way with some joke, or challenging them in some way, many times they won't "bite" and just react all reserved about it.

    E.g. they may respond with bullshit like "well I never sleep with a guy on the first date" (even if that wasn't the question whatsoever).

    How do you guys deal with this? How to avoid ice queen mode, and get her to unleash the naughty girl that they all have somewhere inside them?

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    Default Re: Newbie having more success than expected, how to turn physical? (i.e. s

    I ask them who thier celeb crush is... This gets them somewhat into a sexual convo seeing as they definitely want that person sexually. You can steer it more in that direction from there.

    All in all I've never really found it necessary to talk about it as much as I did to get them alone so it can happen.

    Mystery method uses reasons to playfully invite them to ur place such as talking about you dog and then insisting that she come over to see the new trick it can do.

    Escalate Kino, k close, f close


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