It's actually my first post here and i do hope i will get the advice i need, anyway i am not shy nor had major problems getting a girl that i wanted and just came out of a 3yr relationship with an amazing looking girl.
now, few days ago i met a new girl at the place i work, she is stunning so obviously many guys hit on her constantly, i was a bit socially proofed and got her attention, did the cube test and it went well, we met few times and she did say she likes me and on the third time we met, i tried to kiss her and she avoided, saying it doesn't want to make it to easy, i said ok and we continued seeing each other more.
one night i acted as an asshole next to her friends and she didn't speak with me the whole evening but when i was going away i did say that I'm sorry as i did make her feel bad in front of all her friends so she stopped me and we were talking for a bit, i escorted her back and didn't want to try anything as she was drunk and i didn't feel like taking advantage.
next day she called and we met for a coffee, i told her that if she keeps like this i will stop and walk away as she cannot control the way it goes and told her that i do not wish to be her friend, she said she doesn't want to be my friend either (we both meant we want more) so i tried to kiss her again and....nothing, i mentioned that it was my off button because i cannot try and try, she needs to show interest.
later in the evening i got a call, we met at the bar and after a while talking and making fun i grabbed a cigarette and she said i need to ask her for a lighter, i said i don't want a lighter i want her, than the boom question came, "Why do you want me"? i answered honestly, i said i think your cool and smart, reading books, likes extreme sport and adrenalin and if your face was less pretty it would have been easier to explain, anyway i told her i like the ugly girl inside her (as i mentioned she i she is one of the prettiest you can find).
when i asked the same, there was silence, so i said its not fair, later she said she needs to think about it (its not a rocket science) a few minutes later i left.
i told her that if i don't feel comfortable, i will continue being interested i will just leave and she will not see me again, she didn't like the idea.
she called me after 10 minutes and asked if i am angry at her, i said no but i didn't want to wait for her like any other guy.
we said good night and that's it....
i am really interested in her, so if any opinions or advice guys?