A friend found this helpful so i figured someone on here might like it. Dont think it has been covered. It's a good way for a beginner to get into Kino.
Basically, the set up is this... your out with an HB, already done the attraction thing, established comfort. Then suddenly... RING... her phone goes off. She says she has to answer it (sidenote: its not important what the call is about. It usually won't be involved if she is attracted to you... she will want to get off the phone quick to talk with u. STAY COOL. Sometimes people just need to pick up the phone. Its not always because she thinks your a loser).
Ok so... after she talks for a few seconds... maybe ten (just long enough to see that her mom didnt die or anything serious).
Start holding her hand and caressing it. Be of the mind that you are bored and are playing around. Hold her hand, rub it hold it up to your face etc.
If she let's you do it, keep on doing it. Since she is on the phone, she will be curious as to what your doing BUT because she is splitting up her attention between u and her caller, her shield will be lower.(sidenote: if its her best friend on the line, there will be alot of her saying uh huh go on to her friend. Women take awhile to come to the point. Escalate).
If her leg is easily accessable, by all means kino that also.
NOW HERE'S the MOST IMPORTANT part... you got her curious... she seems to be confused about what your doing but not shutting you down...NOW U TURN IT AROUND ON HER
Bend her finger back hard, stick your nails into her hand and do whatever annoying (but not gross) thing u can think of in order to get her to break her concentration. The purpose of this is two fold.
1. You will see how complient she is to letting you have your way. Again, she is splitting her concentration. If she wasn't playful or didnt want u, she could just yell at u lol. If she goes along with the pranks, her body basically is saying 'i will let you do physical stuff to me even if i don't want you. Remember, her mind (with all its logics on why she shouldnt sleep with you) is distracted. You are almost getting her subconcious reaction.
2. Mixed signals. You had her thinking you were playing nice but then u flipped it. Women enjoy the reversal.
If she is stuck up and WILL not play along, just tell her you were bored. And also remember that SHE IS on the phone while she is with you... that can be rude if prolonged. Mention this teasingly.
As a final sidenote... you can also do this IF you receive a call. Just follow the same pattern. Because she will not be used to anyone splitting their attention while on the phone, she will experience the same emotions. When u get off the phone, accuse her of playing footsies or flirting (depending on what path you chose, hands or legs lol).
I use this whenever a phone call happens. It works pretty well. Added bonus: if the convo is something super happy for her, she will associate those feelings with your touch... even after you prank her lol.
Have fun! If it works for anyone else LMK!