Okay guys I recently went on a really awkward date. Met an 8.5 online built a lot of attraction flirted and talked a lot. She seemed genuinely excited about meeting and I was surprised when we first met as she is much better looking than the pics on her dating profile had me believe (initially thought she was a 7 at best). Anyway the date was really lame, we had planned on dinner or drinks and then going back to her place (I travelled over an hour to visit her) and she was very open to the idea of sex however I was unable to arrive in time for dinner (we didn't have any specific plans other than first meeting each other) so we ended up hanging out at her place watching movies.
About an hour after I arrived she told me she wasn’t really in the 'mood' as her ex boyfriend of five years had earlier called her that day asking to meet the following day. Apparently he was grieving over the death of a family member. She was really apologetic and told me she would feel awkward given she was meeting her ex the next day. I insisted it was fine. At this point we hadn’t done much except for talking although the same comfort we had built through messages wasn’t there. I hadn’t tried any Kino and after what she had told me it killed any kind of romantic thoughts so we simply sat beside each other awkwardly watching movies with random conversation in between. As she got tired I even offered to sleep on the couch as I felt awkward being close to her, neither of us made any moves there was no holding hands, no cuddles, kisses…no contact at all. I left early the next morning she thanked me for visiting but I honestly could not say I had any fun and simply told her no worries and to have a good day. We haven’t messaged each other since. A bit rude on her behalf given I went out of my way to visit her. The entire time I kind of felt she was a bit out of my league and maybe I wasn’t attractive enough or below her standards. I feel as though I turned a certain f-close into the most akward date I've ever been on.
So what do you guys think is the best way to handle the situation from here. No contact? Wait for her to message me (if ever). I felt we had built a lot of attraction before meeting but I’m not sure if the date being so awkward was partly due to her being disappointed in me. Should I ask her this? I hope it wasn’t and I would really like to see her again despite how awkward it was…(preferably at a time she doesn’t plan on seeing her ex afterwards). Any advice please?