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    thedonman31 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default HB7 playing hard to get.. how to get past the barrier?

    whaddup playas,

    I've been texting this girl for about two weeks now, i feel like she thinks shes better than me. She waits up to three hours to respond to my text. She is showing interest threw her her texts, such as triple lettering, emoticons, that kind of stuff. But i feel like i haven't really connected with her.

    We have already hung out, and had made-out for abit. She invited me over to sleep at her house after our first get together about a week ago. But when i had taken her offer she bailed on our planned date because she was legitimately sick.

    Im just wondering if you guys can give me any advice on how to make her beg me to meet with her. I also was thinking because she is sick, that i could hit some emotional buttons by bringing her a treat from the store or something along those lines.

    thanks, thedon

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    Default Hard to Get

    Right now, by the sounds of it, the reason she feels like she's in control is because you are trying to hard to pursue her. The easiest way to change the odds into your favor is to pull the same trick on her. Randomize your texting times, so she never knows when to expect a text message.

    You should also try to make her double text. Let her have the last word, and then let her have the first word. If you are aiming to build interest in her, try to throw in some interesting conversation topics into the texts. They should be ones that really get her engaged.

    A care package is sweet. Just don't shower her with it, and don't do it often. Scarcity is better than being common.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    thedonman31 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: HB7 playing hard to get.. how to get past the barrier?

    Alright thanks, ill lay off the phone for abit.. I did forget to mention she has sent double/triples before. But she has only started the conversation once or twice before.

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    Default Re: HB7 playing hard to get.. how to get past the barrier?

    Got to set the snare up but then prepare to handle it.

    I was in a similar situation. I broke contact for several days then she ended up calling me.

    Also perhaps take it over from texting to calling her. Seemingly helped me in the same situation.

    If you go out again show her a good time and make sure she has fun that way she knows whats involved being around you. Got to build a good foundation that separates you from the rest.


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