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    Default A girl asked me out, but I'm shy especially when there are cockblockers

    Let me start with a little backstory,

    This HB is a friend of a friend of mine. I added her on facebook last December and it was a big surprise that she was the one who first messaged me. I don't really know if this is an ioi since she seems to be not interested on replying; most of the time she only replies in three to five words. So I decided to Freeze-Out, not replying to her messages etc., and even if she likes my photos or status, I just ignore her.

    Then last week she messaged me first. Let me post the conversation:

    her: hai

    me: hi!

    her: ^^.. sadly I wasn't been able to go to the university week

    me: yeah, I was waiting for you, but it's okay.. I'm not really sure, but I think I saw you at the mall last saturday

    her: really? where?

    me: infront of [name of a local clothing store]
    you were with a girl... I think you were about to go out..

    [note: I was just shooting in the dark here, I honestly didn't see her there neither was I at the mall]

    her: so you really saw me.. why didn't you say hi? (sad face)

    me: I'm shy...
    besides, it might not be you.

    her: hehehe.. you have a point..

    me: I really find it funny that the first thing I noticed is that you have very slanted eyes

    her: really? you cheater.. you saw me, but I didn't see you. I think I should also meet you

    me: sure. If you want.

    her: hmhm we can...

    me: you like coffee?

    her: yah i love coffee.. I'm addicted to coffee.. hehe..

    after that we decided she'll treat me to starbucks..



    The problem is she has friends with her, college friends, and as far as I know, they are cockblockers. Plus I would really want her to get attracted to me. Any tips? or advice with this?

    -requiem
    Last edited by requiem; 02-25-2013 at 11:36 AM. Reason: wrong grammar

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    Default Re: A girl asked me out, but I'm shy especially when there are cockblockers

    If you are meeting up as a group then you have to befriend them. The friends have to like you so that when you walk away they will likely say good things about you.

    If her friends do something to cockblock you, you could either bounce it off or let her know that you have somewhere else to be. Depends on how good you are in dealing with cockblockers.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: A girl asked me out, but I'm shy especially when there are cockblockers

    sadly, i'm not really good with cockblockers. I end up paranoid and frustrated when someone cockblocks me. I'm a very introverted type of guy, that's my weak point.

    i'm just a newbie, how do I "bounce off"? any tips for me?

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    Default Re: A girl asked me out, but I'm shy especially when there are cockblockers

    You have to reshape any behavior that they are doing and purposefully misinterpret it as something else. Preferably that they are trying to hit on you (implying that they are gay) and that you are not interested. Then once they get defensive just shape it that they are being sensitive. Mind you this isn't meant to start a fight. Use this tool to just bring them down a notch and let them know you can bite back. Your main goal should always be to make sure everyone is having a good time and enjoying your company. So once you tease them, compliment them.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: A girl asked me out, but I'm shy especially when there are cockblockers

    those guys aren't gay.. they're just classmates.
    I think I'm planning to Isolate the girl, kinda like make myself the center of attention, befriend those guys, while at the same time giving negs to the HB. After that I'll try to separate her from the crowd and her buddies, of course, I would try to make it sound it's her idea to leave the two of us alone.

    does that sound like a good idea?

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    Default Re: A girl asked me out, but I'm shy especially when there are cockblockers

    Hi,

    sorry, if i's a stupid question, but what exactly is a cockblocker? Couldn't find it in the glossary...

    Thanks and regards,

    silverface


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