Ra1d is on point; you definitely have to build comfort before trying to lead the girl somewhere. Imagine a homeless guy trying to get you to push his cart a few blocks down the road; I don't know about you but I wouldn't feel comfortable about it.
Originally Posted by Ra1d
Again, build comfort. Females like being led, not manipulated.
Originally Posted by D.M. Evans
I just like the idea you mentioned about "assuming" that you're going over to her place, or that she's coming over to yours. It's like setting a SMART goal and pursuing it persistently; it becomes INEVITABLE that you will get it.
Originally Posted by costarica
Success or fail; everything you try can be chalked up as a learning experience~