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    Default Major sticking point with ex-gf's friend.

    So check it out, I am trying to get my ex-gf's friend in the sack. We will say her name is Jane.

    I have known Jane for years and for years we have been friends. I dated her friend Val for a year, but it didn't work out. We are all friends now. Jane got out of a relationship that was ten years long. She told me that she is looking for a fuck buddy (ioi?). I brought up that I would be an awesome candidate. Makes sense, right? I have no girlfriend, I already keep discreet relationships with a few girls and I'm great in bed. So I would be a shoe in. Besides, Jane is hot and I want to do her.

    Anyways, so me and her go out drinking and then finish up over at my house. She goes on to tell me that she doesn't want to die alone and wants kids one day, so she offers a deal that me and her have kids by the time we are 34 (that's 7 years down the road for us). Would this be another IOI?

    So we are both ready to go to bed. I forgot to mention earlier, but she was staying in my guest bedroom for a few nights. She was in town and didn't have any of her furniture at her mom's house (she recently got a condo in the city). So she asked to stay at my place and I obliged.

    Ok, back to the story. So she heads for the guest bedroom, I kind of piddle around in the livingroom. Now when she does get into bed and turn the lights out she made a point of leaving the door open and kept talking to me. I took the hint, entered the room and crawled into bed. We kissed for the first time, I popped her bra off and we started doing some heavy making out. I get her shirt off, she is stroking my dick and then I go for the pants. She doesn't want to take her pants off. No problem, I back off and keep getting her hot. Now she's giving me a blowjob and by now I feel that I am finally a shoe in to fuck Jane's brains out. Nope! She goes on to tell me that she would if I hadn't dated her friend. She's go back to sucking my dick. I'm thinking..."WTF?!?"

    So I'm at a sticking point here. I couldn't get around it and I just let her finish me off. The next morning I made her give me a kiss on the cheek for a cup of coffee. The next night was the same deal, heavy playing but no banging. Then she went back to her place in the city and I hung out with her one last time before I left town for a business trip.

    This summer she invited me to go with her to Europe to see some mutual friends.

    If there is anything I left out, let me know. Otherwise....where am I fucking up?

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    Default Re: Major sticking point with ex-gf's friend.

    That's just weird.

    Some options:

    1. Call Val and ask her to tell Jane it's okay that you two hit it.
    2. Dry hump her and get her so turned on that she can't say no.

    I just cannot imagine a girl blowing you and then telling you that. She is just stalling for some reason. There is more to the story I think.
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    Default Re: Major sticking point with ex-gf's friend.

    Right, I agree. Or maybe she was on her period and didn't want to admit it. I totally did the dry humping thing. It did the trick in that it got her really turned on but she would pull some very strong LMR whenever I tried taking her pants off or asked her to take her pants off.

    I have been very good about not being needy and I doubt I will get LJBF'd. I am going to let this one cook. I mentioned to her that we could be FBs (as I wrote before) but she said she won't unless it's later down the road and she has unsuccessfully found a FB that didn't date her friend. lol


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