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    Default Re: Kino's - Accused of wanting sex.

    Could this same technique be used effectivly in a situation where she has not accused you of wanting sex, but you just tell her anyways seemingly "out of nowhere". Or would this backfire?

    Ive almost felt like doing this on occasion when im:

    1. Talking to a girl but I havnt really expressed any direct interest in her yet

    Or

    2. Telling this to a female friend (I have a few that Ive wanted to nail for years, and I think theres a 50-50 chance that they would)

    And last but not least.... over a text? I know everyone will say no to this, but for real a situation could come up to send this over text.

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    Default Re: Kino's - Accused of wanting sex.

    Quote Originally Posted by Rando9009 View Post
    Could this same technique be used effectivly in a situation where she has not accused you of wanting sex, but you just tell her anyways seemingly "out of nowhere". Or would this backfire?

    Ive almost felt like doing this on occasion when im:

    1. Talking to a girl but I havnt really expressed any direct interest in her yet

    Or

    2. Telling this to a female friend (I have a few that Ive wanted to nail for years, and I think theres a 50-50 chance that they would)

    And last but not least.... over a text? I know everyone will say no to this, but for real a situation could come up to send this over text.
    The difference as I see it is that you are introducing a sexual frame where in this scenario I am building upon the sexual frame that has already been introduced. This is an apples and oranges comparison. The primary and critical element for me when I introduce sexuality is it's based off of what she wants. If she's attractive then she knows I want to fark, but if she wants to fark me that's a whole different story.

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    As far as introducing sexuality via text I kinda think it's a mixed bag. Sure working via text could work. But for me, what if she's excited about the idea and you are no where around to do anything about it. It could derail or she could rethink it before you get to her. I made that mistake..once. I prefer to introduce sexuality face to face.

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    Default Re: Kino's - Accused of wanting sex.

    Quote Originally Posted by Suave Kino View Post
    The difference as I see it is that you are introducing a sexual frame where in this scenario I am building upon the sexual frame that has already been introduced. This is an apples and oranges comparison. The primary and critical element for me when I introduce sexuality is it's based off of what she wants. If she's attractive then she knows I want to fark, but if she wants to fark me that's a whole different story.

    Kino's "BOMBSHELL" YOU MUST READ!!!

    As far as introducing sexuality via text I kinda think it's a mixed bag. Sure working via text could work. But for me, what if she's excited about the idea and you are no where around to do anything about it. It could derail or she could rethink it before you get to her. I made that mistake..once. I prefer to introduce sexuality face to face.
    What do you mean when you say "based off of what she wants?"

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    Default Re: Kino's - Accused of wanting sex.

    I simply mean that the paradigm needs to be shifted from one where you want her, to she wants you.

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    Default Re: Kino's - Accused of wanting sex.

    Quote Originally Posted by Niko_Stylez View Post
    Great advice, Kino!

    I'm going to try this tonight with a HB9 who is coming over so I can give her the "one on one" motorcycle riding lessons" she requested.

    I'm trying to get in some last minute cramming before she comes over. lol

    Thanks!
    Lol I saw your post about this meet up a few weeks ago. Wreck er brah... You were born to hit that lol


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