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    grant459 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation HELP REQUIRED WITH HOT GIRL. please help!

    okay! So pretty new to this whole concept but il explain the situation.

    So! Always go to the same club every Thursday with my wingman. We met this awesome
    Girl who I would say is a 8 or a 9. We get chatting and see her every week. So last week before we left I was leaving with another girl, she came up to me an took my phone and put her number in.
    She was really drunk and put in the wrong number. I added her on Facebook aswell. Then last night she messages me asking what I'm doing tonight and if am going to the club we always goto. So I say I'm going out and she gives me her number and says txt me.

    I txt her and bust her balls in a flirty way about giving me the wrong number etc etc and we have good flirty conversations. Then she asks if I'm going to the usual club we always go to and suggests we go together! So I'm out with my wingman and a girl he is kinda dating we go pick her up in a taxi and head to the club! So im pretty much thinking its a sealed deal and we would get it on.


    BUT! When we are in there we are all standing together and this guy she knows walks up to her, I turn away and act like I'm not interested then I have a quick glacÚ and they are now full on kissing. So I ignore her n leave her to it and me and my friend eventually leave without her. She then txts me asking if 'I'm okay babe?' And I say yes course' why wouldn't i be!


    So what do I do now? She's really hot and would like to touch her inappropriately (with her consent ovcourse) should I just cut my loses because she seems like a head fuck or will I give her the cold shoulder for abit?! What should I do!!!!

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    Default Re: HELP REQUIRED WITH HOT GIRL. please help!

    First off, I think you screwed up by taking her to a club as your "sort of" date with her. Clubs are wolves' dens. Every guy in that place is looking for the exact same thing as you, and I find that in clubs females have total control. My advice to you would have been to take control of the situation and go somewhere else with her. Tell her you're taking her for drinks at a lounge, or planning to do whatever. But never take a date to a club IMO.

    When I'm in LTRs, I hate going to the clubs with my GFs. Unless you have a great woman, you're constantly dealing with douchebags trying to steal your girl and it's a pain in the ass. I am a very alpha individual who was brought up in sports. My first reaction is just to knock the guy out--obviously, not the best response. That's how I dealt with shit like that in high school, and it always seemed to work--not so much in the real world. Point being, forget about clubs with a date, especially early in the relationship.

    Second off, how could you have handled the situation differently once you were at the club? It's obvious that this HB was looking for your attention. Great job by not giving it to her, terrible job just letting her kiss the guy. When you saw him approaching, you should have AMOGed him. Jumped in there and been super friendly and made it clear that she came with you and she was with you that night. If she started kissing him after that, then I really don't think she's worth your time.

    However, based on your post it's possible they were kissing before you even saw him approach. If this is the case, then you did right by not paying attention. The next thing you should have done is gone into full blown PUA mode and started hitting on everything that moved in that club. She wants to kiss him? Great! You're going to kiss every girl in that fucking club and make sure she has a front row seat to the event.

    Finally, her text afterwards clearly shows that she was just trying to get a reaction out of you. Unfortunately, IMO you gave her a reaction. She came with you and you left her there, and she's taken that as a negative reaction. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, since you don't want to appear like you don't care at all, but the truth is, when a woman does something like this, you can't act like nothing is happening. You have to punish bad behavior and reward good behavior. By not doing anything at all, you just let this behavior be.

    When she texted you, I would have told her that I was fine, but I had to go early because I was meeting a girlfriend for breakfast the next morning. You needed to make it clear that if she was going to engage in that kind of behavior, you're not just going to wait around for her.

    As a final piece of advice, if you're going to go out with her again, I wouldn't go to a club.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    grant459 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Cool Re: HELP REQUIRED WITH HOT GIRL. please help!

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    First off, I think you screwed up by taking her to a club as your "sort of" date with her. Clubs are wolves' dens. Every guy in that place is looking for the exact same thing as you, and I find that in clubs females have total control. My advice to you would have been to take control of the situation and go somewhere else with her. Tell her you're taking her for drinks at a lounge, or planning to do whatever. But never take a date to a club IMO.

    When I'm in LTRs, I hate going to the clubs with my GFs. Unless you have a great woman, you're constantly dealing with douchebags trying to steal your girl and it's a pain in the ass. I am a very alpha individual who was brought up in sports. My first reaction is just to knock the guy out--obviously, not the best response. That's how I dealt with sh1t like that in high school, and it always seemed to work--not so much in the real world. Point being, forget about clubs with a date, especially early in the relationship.

    Second off, how could you have handled the situation differently once you were at the club? It's obvious that this HB was looking for your attention. Great job by not giving it to her, terrible job just letting her kiss the guy. When you saw him approaching, you should have AMOGed him. Jumped in there and been super friendly and made it clear that she came with you and she was with you that night. If she started kissing him after that, then I really don't think she's worth your time.

    However, based on your post it's possible they were kissing before you even saw him approach. If this is the case, then you did right by not paying attention. The next thing you should have done is gone into full blown PUA mode and started hitting on everything that moved in that club. She wants to kiss him? Great! You're going to kiss every girl in that farking club and make sure she has a front row seat to the event.

    Finally, her text afterwards clearly shows that she was just trying to get a reaction out of you. Unfortunately, IMO you gave her a reaction. She came with you and you left her there, and she's taken that as a negative reaction. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, since you don't want to appear like you don't care at all, but the truth is, when a woman does something like this, you can't act like nothing is happening. You have to punish bad behavior and reward good behavior. By not doing anything at all, you just let this behavior be.

    When she texted you, I would have told her that I was fine, but I had to go early because I was meeting a girlfriend for breakfast the next morning. You needed to make it clear that if she was going to engage in that kind of behavior, you're not just going to wait around for her.

    As a final piece of advice, if you're going to go out with her again, I wouldn't go to a club.

    I see where you are coming from, it wasnt exactly confirmed as a date however agreeing to go out togther and want to meet me kind of gave me that impression. I think your right about the whole club thing, But im fairly new to gaming and i would have no idea how to interupt with her and that guy without apearing like a creep?

    how would you do that? I was neggin her about the fact she kissed him and she was shit testing me by asking me if i was mad and i jsut said i hadnt noticed because i was having a good time.

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    Default Re: HELP REQUIRED WITH HOT GIRL. please help!

    so i met a HB9 last night i introduced myself told her she looked like a famous model except that her hair is a mess and she laughed and sed thanks youuu.she kept telling me i was adorable and i was doing Kino all night. I invited her to go to a rihanna concert the next day with me and then get drinks afterwards and she loved the idea. I had to leave and she gave me her number and said i better text her i really dont want to mess this up and i always value your opinions what you guys think? any advice?


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